When I have gotten myself in that situation I have prayed this way, "God, I'm willing to be willing." It sounds stupid, but basically what I'm doing is saying "God, I give you permission to adjust my thinking, behavior and will to yours..."
Be prepared when you pray this way because God will "take care" of the situation for his glory! Sometimes his ways are gentle, sometimes they are painful but every time God's actions are for his glory and have been merciful and mighty!