which would be harder for you?

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ijustwanttheTruth

ijustwanttheTruth

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would it be harder for you to kiss someone you don't know at all and will probably never see again? or to kiss someone you know who is a friend who you will likely see all the time for a very long time?

for me i think it's easier to kiss a stranger- barring the whole threat of orally transmitted STD's and whatnot.
(i've never done either. i only suppose it would be easier)

what do you think, and feel free to ask a 'which would be harder' question
 
lil_christian

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Is there a "Would you rather..." game going on anywhere in CC? That's a fun game. That's what this thread title reminded me of is that game. :D

( But I couldn't do either of those things, ever. :p )
 
rachelsedge

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Both.

I think kissing should be part of an intimate, exclusive relationship. I'm reserved with touch, though it's more that I'm reserved with people I don't know. So kissing a stranger, even if I'd never see them again, sounds horrible to me. Kissing a friend sounds horrible too because it sounds like it'd have no meaning, and it'd probably be leading the friend on, it would just be awkward, etc.

I feel like such a killjoy, and I apologize for that ijustwantthetruth, I guess just relationship-y things I don't like picking because that's too intimate an area for me to just pick one willy-nilly. I don't know if that makes sense. Probably because I think about it too much as if I really had to make a decision. :eek:
 
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Jullianna

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I can't imagine kissing a stranger. That would be really weird for me. A kiss is too special for that.
 
ijustwanttheTruth

ijustwanttheTruth

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ok. then which would be harder for you. to eat your least favorite food? or to face your worst fear?
 
lil_christian

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ijustwanttheTruth said:
ok. then which would be harder for you. to eat your least favorite food? or to face your worst fear?
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To eat my least favorite food. At least you can gulp it down with water. :p


Which would be harder for you? Living in a house with no heat? Or living in a house with no air conditioning? (Answer will definitely vary, depending on where you live.)
 
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I have quite a number of friends who are girls and I have absolutely no problem kissing them or giving them a hug when I am departing from them and may not see them for a time, it is just natural to do so and as they are 'friends' there is absolutely nothing sexual in it!

As regards kissing a stranger, well haven't done that for some time, used to do it at different times before I was saved and that not in a friend sense, however, if the occasion arose now I wouldn't have any problems with that, once again it would be done in the same sense as I would with my female friends...

xx (a couple of kisses for my female friends)...lol

Yahweh Shalom...
 
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My greatest fear is outliving my son, so I can't even begin to think about that.
 
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ijustwanttheTruth said:
ok. then which would be harder for you. to eat your least favorite food? or to face your worst fear?
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What if your worst fear is eating your least favorite food?

( haha - yeah - o.k. - lame... :eek: )

:)
 
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GRA

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Jullianna said:
I can't imagine kissing a stranger. That would be really weird for me. A kiss is too special for that.
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Dang!





Oh, well... :(





Wait a minute.





What if we should happen to consider ourselves to not be strangers if we should ever meet 'in person'? :cool:

:eek:

:D

;)

( I just feel good about the fact that I beat everyone else to the punch on this one... hahaha --- Jullianna - love 'ya honey... )

:)
 
DuchessAimee

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This reply may be inappropriate, but since I've already posted on Facebook that I took a pregnancy test today, why not answer this question?



I think it would depend on the kiss. If you're talking about kissing someone's cheek, hand, or forehead, it's not that big of a deal. If you're talking about kissing someone on the mouth, that's different. And I'm assuming for a female they would be kissing a male, true? Although, I'd kiss a female on the cheek or hand. But now I have started to consider germs and all that. According to my current lab instructor, once I get to microbiology my house will smell like bleach all the time.


I have a several questions because 1) it matters, 2) that's part of the medical training, and 3) it's more entertaining this way. So, OP, please clarify. :)
 
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I wouldn't do either of them, partly because I have no experience but more so for the reasons Rachel has already listed. As for least favourite food or worst fear? I would find it more difficult to face my worst fear.
 
DuchessAimee

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rachelsedge said:
Say whaaaat??
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Yeah, I took a pregnancy test in my lab class today. Not because I thought I needed one, but because my instructor needed a volunteer. People in class were excited because they thought I might be pregnant. Even after I said that there was no possibility of it.


One girl was all, "You never know." Um... yeah, I do.


And I had to stop myself from asking why she thought I wouldn't know if I was pregnant or not. Then I wanted to recommend that she not go into the medical profession.
 
zeroturbulence

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DuchessAimee said:
Yeah, I took a pregnancy test in my lab class today. Not because I thought I needed one, but because my instructor needed a volunteer. People in class were excited because they thought I might be pregnant. Even after I said that there was no possibility of it.


One girl was all, "You never know." Um... yeah, I do.


And I had to stop myself from asking why she thought I wouldn't know if I was pregnant or not. Then I wanted to recommend that she not go into the medical profession.
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So how did you know? :confused: Come on don't leave us all in the dark.
 
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Addressing the OP, if my girlfriend counts for choice 2, I'll stick with that.
 
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DuchessAimee said:
Yeah, I took a pregnancy test in my lab class today. Not because I thought I needed one, but because my instructor needed a volunteer. People in class were excited because they thought I might be pregnant. Even after I said that there was no possibility of it.


One girl was all, "You never know." Um... yeah, I do.


And I had to stop myself from asking why she thought I wouldn't know if I was pregnant or not. Then I wanted to recommend that she not go into the medical profession.
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That would have been hilarious if it came back positive in front of the whole class lol. Those things are 99.998% accurate, there is bound to be one positive-negative mistake. Oh man, the timing of it!!! Or as a practical joke, have a positive one. 'So class, it looks like Aimee is pregnant' *proceeded by slow awkward clapping* teehee.
 
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Kissing for me remains within a relationship.
 
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rachelsedge said:
Both.

I think kissing should be part of an intimate, exclusive relationship. I'm reserved with touch, though it's more that I'm reserved with people I don't know. So kissing a stranger, even if I'd never see them again, sounds horrible to me. Kissing a friend sounds horrible too because it sounds like it'd have no meaning, and it'd probably be leading the friend on, it would just be awkward, etc.

I feel like such a killjoy, and I apologize for that ijustwantthetruth, I guess just relationship-y things I don't like picking because that's too intimate an area for me to just pick one willy-nilly. I don't know if that makes sense. Probably because I think about it too much as if I really had to make a decision. :eek:
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WHAT! So if Grandma kisses me I have to be in a relationship with her?

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