WHY ARE ALL THE "GOOD MEN" MARRIED MEN?

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I am glad i am single :) Recenty history has produced generations of western woman who want everything in a man.. They have been sold an impossible ideal as a obtainable right..

It's Comedy but it is Sooooo true.. :rolleyes:

What is "everything"?

And how about women? We should all look like Barbie dolls from age 5.... yes. Modern society has a twisted view on beauty, love and marriage.

A Christian woman will look for the fruits of the spirit in a man. And when she sees them, she will fall in love with Christ in you.
 

Adstar

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Lol..why SHOULDNT women finally want it all from a man? After years of getting the short end of the stick from men..lol..but "ENTITLEMENT" is another story..
A woman can demand the earth and the stars but guess what, no man will be able to deliver it and she will never have it and in the end because she dug her heels in and refused all men because they did not meet her standards she ends up alone in her old age sad and bitter that she ended up with nothing at all..
 

Jewel5712

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What is "everything"?

And how about women? We should all look like Barbie dolls from age 5.... yes. Modern society has a twisted view on beauty, love and marriage.

A Christian woman will look for the fruits of the spirit in a man. And when she sees them, she will fall in love with Christ in you.
Fruity men..gotta love em..throw in a couple goofy nut n im good! Lol
 

Jewel5712

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A woman can demand the earth and the stars but guess what, no man will be able to deliver it and she will never have it and in the end because she dug her heels in and refused all men because they did not meet her standards she ends up alone in her old age sad and bitter that she ended up with nothing at all..
Then she gets a cat! ;)
 

Jewel5712

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A woman can demand the earth and the stars but guess what, no man will be able to deliver it and she will never have it and in the end because she dug her heels in and refused all men because they did not meet her standards she ends up alone in her old age sad and bitter that she ended up with nothing at all..
Btw..men have been "demanding" that from women for centuries.. Look like a goddess..work full time ..care for the kids..the house..the man..n did i say..look like a goddess n at thr end of the day have tons of energy to make her man happy in bed..all the while..looking like a goddess! Lol
 

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Btw..men have been "demanding" that from women for centuries.. Look like a goddess..work full time ..care for the kids..the house..the man..n did i say..look like a goddess n at thr end of the day have tons of energy to make her man happy in bed..all the while..looking like a goddess! Lol
Nope.. Men have never been as demanding as western woman are today.. Never..
 

Jewel5712

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Usually multiple cats..
God doesnt want anything less than the best so if a woman uses her decernment n asks God regarding a man..shes not being overly picky by rejectimg him but not compromising her standards either..
 

Jewel5712

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Nope.. Men have never been as demanding as western woman are today.. Never..
Says a MAN? Lol...i beg to differ..talkimg from many dating years n seeing how society has chamged tge christian men etc..now cant even tell the difference between christian n non christian men..even on cc..more single women..in the churches..more single women and biblically a woman is supposed to be under the spiritually covering of her husband..what women would wanna do that if God isnt in "christian" men these days? Women want to pay for thier own meal now cause if a guy does it theres most likely sexual obligations attached to it..women avoid the hassle n pay...
 

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Nope.. Men have never been as demanding as western woman are today.. Never..
*SARCASM ALERT*

No men have never been that demanding of women. They just excluded them from the political process for years and expected them not to take an interest in anything serious. And refused them the same educational opportunities as men and considered them stupid. To say nothing of more serious violations like in India where they used to expect a widow to throw herself onto her dead husband's pyre and be burned alive. Or cultures that blame women for being too attractive when the men haven't bothered to learn any self control and lust after them and sometimes rape them. Or societies throughout history where men thought nothing of having multiple wives or mistresses in addition to their wives. And let's not forget about how until recently girls who got pregnant out of wedlock pretty much lost all hope of ever being allowed by society to have a decent life, but the men who impregnated them suffered no consequences.

But I'm sure you're right, western women are so demanding with their expectations of being treated like equals and allowed the same freedoms as men have always expected to enjoy, that western men now have it worse than women ever did.
 

Lynx

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Did you see me SAY or even IMPLY that? REALLY??? Lynx..common...you ALWAYS lookim to pick arguments with me??
Perhaps I misread this...

"Good guys? Why NOT married.."

This is how I read it...

" If these single guys are so good, why are they not married?"

If I misread it, my apologies. How DID you mean that line?
 

Lynx

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cinder: I'm glad you caught that before I did. You said what I was going to say, but you said it better. ^.^
 

calibob

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Perhaps I misread this...

"Good guys? Why NOT married.."

This is how I read it...

" If these single guys are so good, why are they not married?"

If I misread it, my apologies. How DID you mean that line?
Because good men don't need to be married. Co-dependent men do.
 

Dino246

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*SARCASM ALERT*

No men have never been that demanding of women. They just excluded them from the political process for years and expected them not to take an interest in anything serious. And refused them the same educational opportunities as men and considered them stupid. To say nothing of more serious violations like in India where they used to expect a widow to throw herself onto her dead husband's pyre and be burned alive. Or cultures that blame women for being too attractive when the men haven't bothered to learn any self control and lust after them and sometimes rape them. Or societies throughout history where men thought nothing of having multiple wives or mistresses in addition to their wives. And let's not forget about how until recently girls who got pregnant out of wedlock pretty much lost all hope of ever being allowed by society to have a decent life, but the men who impregnated them suffered no consequences.

But I'm sure you're right, western women are so demanding with their expectations of being treated like equals and allowed the same freedoms as men have always expected to enjoy, that western men now have it worse than women ever did.
You make some good points. For the collective cogitation of the readers, I'll ask this: Is the equality to which (some) women aspire truly equality, or is it some scope-restricted preferential equality as defined by those same women? Are women wanting to be ditch diggers, stonemasons, garbage collectors and oil rig workers as much as they want to be managers, executives, and politicians? Are they willing to go out in the cold, windy, wet darkness to fix the power lines or fight the fires? Are they willing to step up to serve as soldiers? Can they even carry the required equipment, and not some gender-factored portion thereof? Should people who cannot (or will not) do such have the "right" to make decisions that cause others to do such? Hmmm....

True equality incorporates "equality of necessary responsibility" alongside "equality of desired opportunity". :)
 

Jewel5712

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You make some good points. For the collective cogitation of the readers, I'll ask this: Is the equality to which (some) women aspire truly equality, or is it some scope-restricted preferential equality as defined by those same women? Are women wanting to be ditch diggers, stonemasons, garbage collectors and oil rig workers as much as they want to be managers, executives, and politicians? Are they willing to go out in the cold, windy, wet darkness to fix the power lines or fight the fires? Are they willing to step up to serve as soldiers? Can they even carry the required equipment, and not some gender-factored portion thereof? Should people who cannot (or will not) do such have the "right" to make decisions that cause others to do such? Hmmm....

True equality incorporates "equality of necessary responsibility" alongside "equality of desired opportunity". :)
I knoe women tgat get oit in the cold..milk cows..do chores ..dig post holes...take care of kids..etc..same as a man..ask ANY farmers wife/ or single parent even MORE so.... (btw..ik originally from wisconsin) lol
 
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