Why do men not have the guts to tell a girl when they're NOT interested?! There was a guy I met and was just getting to know, and we seemed to have a lot in common and he seemed interested...then just all of a sudden broke off all contact and ignored me. Why not just say "I don't think we're a good fit" or something to that effect? 'Cause really, the sudden ignoring and breaking off contact hurts worse than that.