Thank you for that sister and yes i am against in pre marital sex too! I just want to hear or know the point of view of the others, and yeah in doing the first move you are also correct on that one! Thank you! I thought i am just too old fashioned! My friends used to tell me, have you ever asked a guy a date first?!and i said No, and they said why not?!?its the new trend now, the new world! And i replied well i don't want to follow the world!