There's a difference between being a better person and being treated differently because you are a better person or even God forbid, feeling entitled because one thinks they're a better person. I think "better people" do not feel they should be treated differently and would be repulsed with entitlement (and the thing our respective resting parents would slap us silly for). And if we're not judged by our actions (which includes our speech) then how will others judge us? It is true that God sees our hearts and judges accordingly, but how will man judge us except by these things? You should know that even the law doesn't judge equally - and for good logical reason (for the most part anyway).
You make some great points for a duck
yes...I really did this.