No...yes...and maybe.
No:
1) Like you were getting at Steph, relationships (much like life) are about balance. Jullianna also mentioned it. Admiring where one another is strong, and being strong where they are weak. Relationships should make you both 'the better' for having, not 'the worse'.
2) There are several things about myself I don't necessarily like, and if I found someone just like myself, we might get on each others nerves. What's worse is that she'd be an INFJ, too, so we may be some of the closest people to literally knowing what the other is thinking/feeling (especially after longer periods of time spent getting to know the other), but also some of the farthest away from communicating that. For a marriage, this is catastrophic! (EX: I'm depressed, conflicted, and don't want to be around you right now...but out of courtesy and possibly love...I will act like I'm not, be the happy, fun, lover for you...and go die a little later.)
3) If she had cycles like mine or downfalls like mine...we'd only weaken our lives by re-enforcing our vices.
Yes:
1) If I were to change, with Christ's help overcoming my vices, and grow to become the well-balanced, well-rounded, Christ-centered human I strive to be, then absolutely! I've got my eyes set on Christ (with poor vision, but Jesus healed the blind, right? ~_^), and if I found an all around Godly woman with few flaws and a well-rounded everything... 0_0!!!!!!!!....where do I sign up?!?!
2) I'm from 'Fun Country' (flag-page reference), vasselate between being an introvert and extrovert, and while sticking strongly to my ideas, beliefs, and other traditions and tested, accepted things in my life, I get tired of things fairly quickly. Don't get me wrong...it depends on the situation. When is comes to people, I've been told I have the patience of a saint, but I don't want to eat the same thing for two meals in a row, let alone two days, or God-forbid weeks! (if that gives you an idea of what I mean) How is this under the 'yes' section? She'd be just like me, so I'd never have to worry about her understand. She could perfectly relate!
3) She would love about life everything I love about life!!! (Can I get an 'Amen'!!) Yes!!! That means my love of music and dream of having a husband/wive singing duet/band would come true! It would mean she loves God and people! It would mean she loves nature! It would mean all those little things (and the big ones...) I like in relationships would be what she likes too!!! I'm starting to see some potential here...!!! Not to mention others things...*cough* that would match in level of desire....
Maybe:
1) Would she be like I was, am, or will be? Those are all different people, and who knows if the me of the past could accept the me of today...
2) Will she change? What if we start out the same, but one turns for the better while the other for the worse?
3) Will being with me be a blessing, God-Ordained, and enjoyable situation, or would I simply be a way for her to stay stuck (or vice versa)?
Really, it all depends I guess...