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Tinuviel

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God does not judge the way man judges. You just said one of the reasons your husband left was because you have health issues. Jesus Christ showed nothing but compassion for those who were sick when he was here on earth! God doesn't count points based on what we call successes and failures. Cling to Jesus, who never will walk out on you, who will always love you and care for you. God bless you, dear sister!
 
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Ruthiemo

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TemporaryCircumstances said:
I know.
It's hard to cope well when you feel like you have nobody and you will never have anybody. It's not easy.
How often do you pray? And I don't mean a written out prayer. I mean how often do you talk to God about everything, like a friend?
I recommend doing it at least once a day

Do you keep a self affirmation journal?
If not you should
Write at least 3 things good about yourself everyday
It can be stupid things or things you don't believe
"I deserve love"
"I am loved"
"I am good enough"
It seems stupid, I know. But, eventually it will make a difference no matter how small it will.
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Thank you.

I pray everyday, as without him i will be going insane. hehe

I do like the idea of the journal. I think it is something i be willing to try. Just saying positive things about myself does not come easy to me. I have always had trouble seeing anything good about myself.
 
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TemporaryCircumstances

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Ruthiemo said:
Thank you.

I pray everyday, as without him i will be going insane. hehe

I do like the idea of the journal. I think it is something i be willing to try. Just saying positive things about myself does not come easy to me. I have always had trouble seeing anything good about myself.
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I know, me too.
I have a staff member from a camp I train at who contacts me to make me tell her two good things about myself
Even if it's "I drank enough water today" lol

I highly recommend you start doing that
 
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Ruthiemo

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Tinuviel said:
God does not judge the way man judges. You just said one of the reasons your husband left was because you have health issues. Jesus Christ showed nothing but compassion for those who were sick when he was here on earth! God doesn't count points based on what we call successes and failures. Cling to Jesus, who never will walk out on you, who will always love you and care for you. God bless you, dear sister!
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I wish i could understand why he left me, i know my health issues have been hard but i can't understand it. i was always open about my feeling while he was not.
Now he saying i emotionally abused him. I can not understand the person i loved so much can be so mean and unfair.

thank you for your message. holding on to Jesus and praying.
 
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followjesus

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Ruthiemo said:
Thank you for sharing with me.

After my first marriage that was abusive, I felt strong, I felt alone and and lost friends and not had a supportive church. I looked for love in wrong places and made myself be used just so i could feel close to someone.

After time I fell in love with my best friend who was for years, I had alot of hurt and lot of upset i was dealing with but felt safe, loved and happy.

we both felt God brought us together and was been married almost 3 years, But for him to leave me out the blue, because he could not deal with me and my health and just left.

I have to move house by end of this week, with no where to go, my church is closing and friends have told me to suck it up and get on with things.

I feel so alone, and want to feel love. I know God loves me, but the little things of someone walking this life with me, side by side and to cuddle and to help me raise my children, I feel life is short and just dont want to hurt myself again by finding love in the wrong places. I know i have to Seek God and he will help, just not easy.

Thank you for your message through. xx
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I understand sister i really do. there are things like this in life that are so very hard to deal with, that really truly break our hearts so badly that we feel well never be okay, well never find what we are looking for. Im so sorry that you are going through this at this time. I will be praying for you daily, that God will work to heal your Heart and supply your needs. Remember yur children and keep them close in this time. remember that no matter How they act they are in tune with your pain. God Loves you I will be praying and hoping on your behalf in Jesus Precious and Holy name, God bless you and may He touch your Heart soon with His healing hand and fill the void and provide you what your Heart needs to return to peace and Joy in the Lord.
 
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Ruthiemo

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followjesus said:
I understand sister i really do. there are things like this in life that are so very hard to deal with, that really truly break our hearts so badly that we feel well never be okay, well never find what we are looking for. Im so sorry that you are going through this at this time. I will be praying for you daily, that God will work to heal your Heart and supply your needs. Remember yur children and keep them close in this time. remember that no matter How they act they are in tune with your pain. God Loves you I will be praying and hoping on your behalf in Jesus Precious and Holy name, God bless you and may He touch your Heart soon with His healing hand and fill the void and provide you what your Heart needs to
return to peace and Joy in the Lord.
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Thank you. please keep in touch thank you x
 
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Spirit2Spirit

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You have three amazing children who I'm sure they love you very much and God loves you ALWAYS! You have a lot going for you right there. It sounds like, from the brief statement that you shared, that God is giving you this opportunity to take care of YOU and your health and your three wonderful children, and to put your trust and faith in HIM. What a blessed time for you to turn to Him for ALL that you need and want.

BLessings to you and your family. I will pray for you
 
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CaptainGoat

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Ruthiemo said:
Hello, This is my first post here. so i hope i doing this right.

My second Husband has left me and it was because he said he did not love me anymore. I also have health issues and he could not deal with them.
My first marriage ended because he was abusive and also had a affair. I just feel that no one will ever love me again.
Christian woman with two failed marriages and 3 children, no one would ever want to love me would they?
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Never ever give up hope. God has you! Hold onto Jesus' hands! He will set you free.

(Last few words I felt to say. Not sure their relevance).
Now I'm saying this. You are a gem waiting to be discovered by some lucky man who finds you. OK?
 
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Ruthiemo

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Spirit2Spirit said:
You have three amazing children who I'm sure they love you very much and God loves you ALWAYS! You have a lot going for you right there. It sounds like, from the brief statement that you shared, that God is giving you this opportunity to take care of YOU and your health and your three wonderful children, and to put your trust and faith in HIM. What a blessed time for you to turn to Him for ALL that you need and want.

BLessings to you and your family. I will pray for you
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Thank you. I am blessed so much. Its hard to understand a man of God would turn away from his vows. I struggled my whole life feeling worthless and unloved. I got to keep my eyes on God as I know he loves me.
 
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Ruthiemo

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Thank you for your kind words captainGoat
 
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