Hey beautiful!!!
My opinion, in short = NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! NEVER EVER!!!!!
Is it cos I think non-Christian guys are bad - NO, there are some guys out there who would make great partners BUT BUT BUT....as tempted as I am (Im 35 and still on the waiting list haha) I would never go out with someone who did not have Christ as their Lord and Saviour.
For 1) We would have different ideals, values and goals,
2) There would be the most significant part of my life he would not understand or I couldnt share with him,
3) Tension cracks would appear eventually, even if the guy says he 'believes' when you are 'committed'
4) I have seen too many of my friends settle for non-Christian men and their Christianity has either suffered greatly or gone out the window completely! Its just not worth the risk!
5) I have seen guys get mad because God is more important than they are....well DUH, thats cos he is!! A non-Christian guy will never get that.
Ahh but what if I could convert him you may think?!?! Not a valid scenario in my opinion. That only happens in the rarest of cases...more often your faith gets dragged down first.
The bible does speak clearly about being unequally yoked.
Believe me, I truly understand the loneliness and longing....but, the man God has for you IS WORTH THE WAIT! Keep praying for him!
God bless sista!