are you out there jonathan?

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Aug 17, 2017
i was ghosted for some reason by the man i love and i can't find him. i know he reads the forums so i want him to see this. please do not remove the name i only put the first name. i would do almost anything to have him back in my life. (unless it's sin of course) please don't comment unless you are him. jonathan, if you are reading this, i'm so sorry. i don't know what i did. i don't know why you are ghosting me. but your absence has made my heart grow fonder. i am in love with you. everything about you makes me fall deeper in love with you. your relationship with Jesus, your adorable laugh, your sense of humour, your sweetness, your kindness, your loving heart, everything about you makes me love you more. please message me in some way or another. either on instagram or text .(i already texted you on my new number so use that one) i am praying for you and i hope that even if i never hear your cute voice again that you are very blessed. i love you.


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Jul 3, 2015

The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just "get the hint" and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested. Ghosting is not specific to a certain gender and is closely related to the subject's maturity and communication skills. Many attempt to justify ghosting as a way to cease dating the ghostee without hurting their feelings, but it in fact proves the subject is thinking more of themselves, as ghosting often creates more confusion for the ghostee than if the subject kindly stated how he/she feels.