I think it is a wise idea to stay friends with people and not start dating. After getting to know your Sisters in Christ, the right Women will come along and you will know to Marry, with out having to date. Dating is not good, friends then Marriage. Plus I am under the assumption that it is better not to Marry, it is a big responsibility and takes your energy away from God. Make sure he wills it, and he will bring the right girl at the right time. Don't spend your time looking for a wife, or girlfriend but spend your time looking for Jesus. (Under every rock,)