feeling....not accepted

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jess_42

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hey everyone

so ive grown up with one friend and it seems like no matter what i do i cant make any friends. for example i was at a camp last week, and my friend and i decieded that for meals, we would sit by people we didnt know to make some new friends. so my friend became really good friends with almost every single one of the people we sat with. but none of them even said hi to me. was it because i wasnt talking? no because i tried really hard to join in to the comversations and to say hi to people and things like that. am i ugly? well im not gorgous but im not ugly. so i just dont know what is so wrong with me that i cant make friends. and so now my only friend might be moving next year. and then what will i do?

any suggestions would be greatly apreceated and please pray for me to

(and sorry for the bad spelling and english...thats what 3 months without school will do to a person lol)
 
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radical_christian

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Ask God to open opportunities in your life to meet new friends. I seriously don't think that something is wrong with you. I mean I think it is human nature to see something wrong when stuff doesn't work out the way we wanted it to. Anyhow, with God's help I believe that you will find the appropiate friends you want and that you will be a blessing to them. The only suggestion I have is to try to attend other churches once in a while and perhaps you will find someone whom you can speak. Oh and another thing don't be shy and full of fear. Simply be who you are with others.

I will keep you in my prayers and may God richly bless you. :p
 
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jess_42

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thanks, that helped alot=]
 
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imepaula

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jess_42 said:
hey everyone

so ive grown up with one friend and it seems like no matter what i do i cant make any friends. for example i was at a camp last week, and my friend and i decieded that for meals, we would sit by people we didnt know to make some new friends. so my friend became really good friends with almost every single one of the people we sat with. but none of them even said hi to me. was it because i wasnt talking? no because i tried really hard to join in to the comversations and to say hi to people and things like that. am i ugly? well im not gorgous but im not ugly. so i just dont know what is so wrong with me that i cant make friends. and so now my only friend might be moving next year. and then what will i do?

any suggestions would be greatly apreceated and please pray for me to

(and sorry for the bad spelling and english...thats what 3 months without school will do to a person lol)
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I can totally related because the same thing is happening to me. But I'm trying to seek God through all of this because he has a reason for allowing this to happen to me and he has a reason for allowing it to happen to you
 
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jess_42

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thank you, ill try to do that from now on.
 
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AussieXlr8

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3 months since you've been to school? Imagine my spelling after a few years?! Oh right and though you'll find it easy to make friends online especially on a site like this I'd advise you to try and make just as many in real life as you do online and yes God will provide, God ALWAYS provides!
 
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Musicfan4ever

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My heart really goes out to both of you, jess_42 & imepaula! When I was in school I got made fun of all of the time & teased because of my looks & because I have epilepsy. It's still hard for me to make friends to this day for those reasons. My friends are basically my church friends & family & my online friends. I'll certainly be keeping you both in my prayers!
 
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flozzzy

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just relax around ppl u dont know, being anybody but urself willl confuse them or make them think your completely different to what u really are, which is a tricky situation to be in. i'll pray for u too.

:)
 
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