Hey guys, fairly awkward question.

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Samcas

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Hey guys, I need some help with a fairly awkward topic.
I am struggling, like a lot, with porn.
It really frustrates me, because I actualy don't wanna masturbate. But when I feel "in the mood" I can't refuse to masturbate.
It may be a weird situation, but It is so annoying.
Any Help? How do my fellow Christian teens deal with this?
 
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Ges

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Hey! You are not alone. I also have been struggling with this but ||Timothy 2:22 tells us, 'Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.' We must FLEE from lustful sin and PURSUE Jesus. The only way to flee from this sin effectively is by loving JESUS more.
 
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[h=1]You can do it bro!!
James 4:7King James Version (KJV)[/h]7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
 
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Lotus57

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When we do something new or "dangerous" or "risky" or something that causes adrenaline it can cause an addiction. People are "adrenaline junkies" to all sorts of things. Even harmless thing like say a woman who quilts gets all crazy excited about a new fabric and she gets a rush from buying it even though she doesn't need it. Then you go in her closet and there's thousands of dollars worth of fabric in there lol. Seems innocent but it's an addiction none the less and it's controlling her. Porn is a habit that rots your brain and will effect your relationships. There are different levels of porn and what is viewed. Once you no longer get a rush from just nudity you will search out worse and worse things. It's not an innocent habit even though it's very common... so is divorce and in my opinion porn has a big part in that.
I would suggest that you take it seriously and weigh the porn in one hand and all the chaos and destruction that it will lead to in the other and run from it. You're going to have to get serious about not looking at it and you will need to pray about it and replace the habit with something else more positive.
 
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cjordan38

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You can make it. Something i struggled with. Occupy yourseld wirh God. Keep reading the Word. Talk to God. Let him know tou dont want to turn back and hurt him. The Word said if the Son sets you free, you are free indeed.
 
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Samcas said:
Hey guys, I need some help with a fairly awkward topic.
I am struggling, like a lot, with porn.
It really frustrates me, because I actualy don't wanna masturbate. But when I feel "in the mood" I can't refuse to masturbate.
It may be a weird situation, but It is so annoying.
Any Help? How do my fellow Christian teens deal with this?
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First off, you CAN refuse to masturbate. It isn't easy, and you may "relapse" and do it over and over again. The trick is to do your best to not do it. Giving up power and saying "you can't refuse" only makes giving in a lot easier. Empower yourself and believe you can refuse it...
 
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Johnnyc

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Start by getting rid of the temptations in your life that cause your urges.
 
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I went through that as a teenager, (early 20's now) how I beat not having a choice was when I was "in the mood" whenever I got to the point where it seemed like it was just gonna happen, I let my hand start going, then I would force it to go somewhere else, urges would riot but I would put my willpower on simply keeping my hand almost literally anywhere else, still happened quite a lot but by doing that I was able to keep myself from doing it longer and longer until I was able to outlast "the mood", I also used to imagine that there was some being nearby causing "the mood" and that every moment under that kind of temptation not masturbating was a victory over some enemy, for motivation.
 
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