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Jesusfan2

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hi :) I would like to be your friend :) I always want to find new frineds :) so, if you just want :) okay? :) ;)

God bless you :)
 
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nanabean

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Hey guys?? I agree that maybe RyFlan could have been kinder in choosing his words, and also that he needs to be much more accepting of us older folks popping in to see how the teens are doing, and offering our advice, and friendship, BUT.......if you can read the post he copied, ie: the way it read before it was edited by a mod, instead of just the post the way it reads now, it really was an inappropriate answer to his thread. Seriously....read his copied version........

RyFlan.......I do hope you give us older people a chance to be a friend to you as well, we have alot to offer!
 
HoneyDew

HoneyDew

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Apr 30, 2011
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Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
 
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RyFlan

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Ugly said:
These forums are not well sorted. Married people answer in singles, older people answer in teens, non-Christians answer all through out. If you're going to be that hung up on segregation, then you have fun with that. Its also rather judgmental to assume because someones older that means they're a creepy pervert. Some people have a heart for teens, did you ever think maybe the person might actually care & is trying to be helpful? Apparently you haven't. Too busy judging them. Enjoy your little teen forum, kid. I'm out.
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Well it looks like I know why I don't have any friend now.
 
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RyFlan

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Tobby17 said:
Ok basically, you shouldn't talk to people like that!.. She was just trying to be friendly and not trying to be Creepy!..

But then again, Ugly also thinks i'm rude bcoz i kept telling him to change the name from *Ugly* bcoz he is God's creation...

So again, if Ugly says you're rude, I Wouldn't Agree...lol.

Let's be friends :)
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Haha ok.. if you still want to.
 
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RyFlan

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
You are rude.

Anyone can read the teen forums and reply to them. Im 28 and do it all the time, as well as numerous other older adults. Get over it.

Besides you never know if one of these 15 or 16 year old girls or guys is actually a 49 year old man pretending to be your age. This is the internet you never know what your gonna get, so before you get all snooty and bratty maybe you should re-think your plan of action here.


My opinion, you need a professional counselor instead of trying to dump all of your problems on a person that is just a kid like yourself.
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Sorry .......................
 
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RyFlan

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Jesusfan2 said:
hi :) I would like to be your friend :) I always want to find new frineds :) so, if you just want :) okay? :) ;)

God bless you :)
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Thank you. It's hard to be down when you put a smiley face after ever word ;) haha
 
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RyFlan

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nanabean said:
Hey guys?? I agree that maybe RyFlan could have been kinder in choosing his words, and also that he needs to be much more accepting of us older folks popping in to see how the teens are doing, and offering our advice, and friendship, BUT.......if you can read the post he copied, ie: the way it read before it was edited by a mod, instead of just the post the way it reads now, it really was an inappropriate answer to his thread. Seriously....read his copied version........

RyFlan.......I do hope you give us older people a chance to be a friend to you as well, we have alot to offer!
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Thank you. I'm obviously not very good with people. Probably why no one ever sits with me at lunch.
 
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RyFlan

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HoneyDew said:
Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
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Thanks. I'm not very friendly.
 
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nanabean

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RyFlan said:
Ok you're creepy and you obviously didn't read the part where i said 15-18 years old.... lol but thanks?
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RyFlan said:
Wow man I'm just trying not to get molested and when there's a 41 year-old in the teens forum, that creeps me out. Is there really something wrong with that? And you're 35 o_O what are you doing here!?
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In NO way whatsoever am I condoning this type of response.....it is two very rudely put posts. However, I DO think RyFlan has a point in not being happy with the post he was responding to from simonsays. Go to RyFlan's first repsonse (post #4) to simonsays original post (#3) Read his COPIED ORIGINAL version of simonsays post.....not post #3, which has been edited, but the ORIGNAL post that was copied ..... you will see what I mean (if the mods do not edit it too!!)


HoneyDew said:
Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
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AMEN!!!
 
Calmador

Calmador

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RyFlan said:
Thanks. I'm not very friendly.
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I think one of your problems is that... your not very trusting or open to the possiblity of good things in good faith. You close yourself up and put up walls around you to protect yourself and you close out others maybe? I'm only speculating because of how you treated others on your thread, this may not apply to you, but I think it probably does. Instead of thinking... "Oh he/she might be a bad person and might do something bad to me" think "Hey he/she might be a good person and might give me something good (like friendship)"

In other words... you gotta be open to the possibilty of good things to actually get them. And in order to accept and give these good things, you literally have to be even willing to risk your life.

Like I can see a homeless man from a distance... and I could try to talk to him. I'm potentially risking my life because after all some people like that well could be dangerous... but if I don't I'll never be able to help them. I have to risk my life to help them... likewise the homeless person has to risk his/her life to be helped by trusting strangers that reach out to help them.

P.S. careful with your words, maybe you didnt mean it (mentioning creepers) but others obviously were insulted, be concious of others with your words.

PM me whenevers, G-d Bless, I'm pretty friendless myself haha
 
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RyFlan

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nanabean said:
In NO way whatsoever am I condoning this type of response.....it is two very rudely put posts. However, I DO think RyFlan has a point in not being happy with the post he was responding to from simonsays. Go to RyFlan's first repsonse (post #4) to simonsays original post (#3) Read his COPIED ORIGINAL version of simonsays post.....not post #3, which has been edited, but the ORIGNAL post that was copied ..... you will see what I mean (if the mods do not edit it too!!)




AMEN!!!
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It's ok you don't have to defend me I was way out of line.
 
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RyFlan

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Calmador said:
I think one of your problems is that... your not very trusting or open to the possiblity of good things in good faith. You close yourself up and put up walls around you to protect yourself and you close out others maybe? I'm only speculating because of how you treated others on your thread, this may not apply to you, but I think it probably does. Instead of thinking... "Oh he/she might be a bad person and might do something bad to me" think "Hey he/she might be a good person and might give me something good (like friendship)"

In other words... you gotta be open to the possibilty of good things to actually get them. And in order to accept and give these good things, you literally have to be even willing to risk your life.

Like I can see a homeless man from a distance... and I could try to talk to him. I'm potentially risking my life because after all some people like that well could be dangerous... but if I don't I'll never be able to help them. I have to risk my life to help them... likewise the homeless person has to risk his/her life to be helped by trusting strangers that reach out to help them.

P.S. careful with your words, maybe you didnt mean it (mentioning creepers) but others obviously were insulted, be concious of others with your words.

PM me whenevers, G-d Bless, I'm pretty friendless myself haha
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Thanks for the advice. I've been actually trying to put out an effort to meet new people and actually give them a chance but I'm not very good at it.
 
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Jesusfan2

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RyFlan said:
Thank you. It's hard to be down when you put a smiley face after ever word ;) haha
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just, I'm smiley person, and I'm writting what I'm feeling :D hahahah ;)
 
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Jesusfan2

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#36
#36
haha! Okies! :)
 
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namkhaboy

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#37
#37
Hi friends, i want someone who will encourage me and often send me message, who is looking for her dream.
 
DavidvanHolten

DavidvanHolten

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Feb 26, 2011
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So, what do I care that a bunch of people hate me..
Jesus still loves me ;D
 
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