Messed Up.

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PrisTheo

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Hello, I'm new here and I'm just 14.
- I ended up being in a relationship with three guys. A boy, a man and a married man. I really don't want to say no when someone ask me something so, here I am with a boy, an athlete in my school. He's really popular but I have no idea why did he choose me (He told me I fixed back the pieces of his heart) *sorry for my bad English*. Then, the second one... He works as a church's staff. It started a year ago when our Bishop moved him to another place. I kinda like him that time (urgently). The problem is, when a guy in my church moves to another place, I have a crush on him (in all sudden) ._.
It's been 7 months.. The third one.. He had an affair with me since 2 years ago.. - The 2nd and 3rd lives far away from me -
- I really don't know what to do now. This is my second mistake.. I wanted to let go one by one but my mind keeps telling me that they will suffer because they really love me :(
> Please help me :confused:
* I'm an Asian :D
 
Fenner

Fenner

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You're 14, if they loved you they'd realize you're a child. Please stay away from these men. If you lived in America the two men would go to prison for statutory rape. I don't mean to sound cruel but you're way to young to have relationships with boys or men.
 
Channa

Channa

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He PrisTheo :) First welcome to the site ^^
My advice is to stop immediately with the relationships with the 2nd and the 3rd
Also to think about what you want. Do you want to have a relationship with the first guy? Do you really love him, for the way he is? Success :) I'll pray for ya, you can do it!


PrisTheo said:
Hello, I'm new here and I'm just 14.
- I ended up being in a relationship with three guys. A boy, a man and a married man. I really don't want to say no when someone ask me something so, here I am with a boy, an athlete in my school. He's really popular but I have no idea why did he choose me (He told me I fixed back the pieces of his heart) *sorry for my bad English*. Then, the second one... He works as a church's staff. It started a year ago when our Bishop moved him to another place. I kinda like him that time (urgently). The problem is, when a guy in my church moves to another place, I have a crush on him (in all sudden) ._.
It's been 7 months.. The third one.. He had an affair with me since 2 years ago.. - The 2nd and 3rd lives far away from me -
- I really don't know what to do now. This is my second mistake.. I wanted to let go one by one but my mind keeps telling me that they will suffer because they really love me :(
> Please help me :confused:
* I'm an Asian :D
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