My Biggest Fear

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I am scared of dying... Its just something i am scared of the thought of it. I do honestly believe in Jesus and everything but i sometimes have doubts without wanting to. this sounds kind dumb but its like i don't want to doubt it but something just does and i have a fear for death. Please i need help with this and can people please tell me if this effects me in anyway. :(
 
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Dude, you might still be alive when Jesus returns. You never know. When He returns, if you're saved, you will not experience physical death. Wanna know why? Because Jesus died for YOU. He experienced physical death for you so that you could be free from sin forever.

Now, there is still the possibility that you will not be alive on Earth before He returns. If you're saved, you have nothing to fear. You'll be with the Lord in Heaven.

Don't worry about death. Worry about your spiritual relationship with God. Worry about your family and friends who are heading straight for hell because they are not Christ's.
 
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Thank you i really appreciate this. It is just doubt in my mind and it is something i can't get over. I hope that i could still get into heaven even with my doubt. But don't get me wrong i WANT to believe and do. its just the fear that comes from my mind wandering into what if scenario's
 
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Dom1203

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I know the feeling, when that voice in your head is saying what if you're wrong... You know, like what happens if you die and Jesus isn't real.. I have those moments, but I know its the Devil planting the seed of doubt in my mind. He is the Prince of deception, and i believe doubt is his greatest weapon. But we have the greatest weapon of all, Jesus. Do not fear death my friend, Jesus knows your heart and loves all His children. Nothing can separate us from His unfailing love. When we cross from earth into eternity it will the most beautiful experience, seeing Jesus face to face forever. The only reason one should fear death is if that person is not in Christ..
 
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I am scared of dying... Its just something i am scared of the thought of it. I do honestly believe in Jesus and everything but i sometimes have doubts without wanting to. this sounds kind dumb but its like i don't want to doubt it but something just does and i have a fear for death. Please i need help with this and can people please tell me if this effects me in anyway. :(
Try listening to the series(though it's still probably not finished yet.)

Victory Over Death | Faith Life Church - Branson, MO
 

eugenius

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After you watch what dothack has posted, please read this play called "Lazarus Laughed".

Below is a quick summary.

The story features characters and events following the raising of Lazarus of Bethany from the dead by Jesus. As Lazarus is the first man to return from the realm of the dead, the crowd reacts intently to his words. Over and over again he declares to them that there is no death – only God’s eternal laughter. The more Lazarus laughs, the younger and stronger he becomes.



The more he laughs, the older and weaker his wife Miriam (who trusts him but does not understand his laughter) becomes.


The subsequent scenes portray a series of tests (perhaps similar to those trials of Job) by the Jews, Romans and Greeks to try the faith of Lazarus. Consequently, members of his family are taken from him, but Lazarus continues always to laugh, even as Miriam is poisoned by the Roman Emperor Tiberius and continuing on to the very end, when Tiberius burns him at the stake.


Read it free here. Link below.

LAZARUS LAUGHED


How can you scare Lazarus? Think about it. Lazarus I'm going to kill you. Hahahahaha. Go ahead buddy.
 
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Willot

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In my personal opinion, there is no afterlife, but i wasn't alive millions of years before my birth and never suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.
 
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Kyouken01

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Death is the worst possible thing that could happen to a believer - and, depending on your perspective, death isn't a bad thing. I believe Paul said it best - "to live is Christ, and to die is gain". You see, he had an eternal perspective on the matter; death to him was but for a moment in the long run. His eyes were fixed past the point of death. If you view death as merely the passing on from one place to another (and knowing where you're going helps too :p ), and how Paul did, it won't look so bad anymore.
 

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Most people struggle with this at 15....so be patient with yourself. You're just now 'waking up' so don't expect to understand everything right away :)

Keep praying, reading the Word, and fellowshipping with Christians...this will go a long way in your spiritual growth....and work on getting rid of sin in your life.

Praying for strength and guidance for you from the Holy One :)
 
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Chanson

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I think TomB_2012's words're warm and correct on the whole...

But, your condition appears to be some-what strange to me, Hutchy...

'I do honestly believe in Jesus and everything but i sometimes have doubts without wanting to. this sounds kind dumb but its like i don't want to doubt it but something just does and i have a fear for death.'

Is it possible there're evil spirits affecting you... ? Just a guess... I just think it'd be better if you can make a pray to God about this if you feel bad, Hutchy...

I know the feeling, when that voice in your head is saying what if you're wrong...
Are you sure the voice's good... ? Because, according to what I know, you shouldn't hear a voice within you, which's usually ominous...

Any-way, who can answer you better than God, Hutchy? :)
 
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Thanks Chanson... I wasn't raised as a christian and wasn't until last November, this is why i have trouble. I just keep thinking what if scenarios
 
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Chanson

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Thanks Chanson... I wasn't raised as a christian and wasn't until last November, this is why i have trouble. I just keep thinking what if scenarios
I'm glad you like my words... :)
 
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GodsDaughter20

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Hey Hutchy I understand your fear but as long as you have Faith you have nothing to worry about. Trust me God understands and He won't give you more than you can bear. A lot of people have the what ifs in their head but you can't let that stop you.
 
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I was afraid of death when i was younger. now i know one thing- there are things much worse than death. One thing you should really do, is pray. pray that God will protect you and take that fear away from you. When Jesus died on the cross, he defeated death! so when we learn that God can take away all fears, i think the first fear he will take away is the fear of death, because as long as you follow Jesus, death has nothing to do with you.You have Jesus now, you will live forever!
 
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becausehefirstlovedme

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Listen if you have a relationship with Jesus that means you know him and you follow him and have him in you heart then you will go to heaven. You can talk to God and ask him and he will reassure you that he is the way the true and the life and that noone gets to the father but through him. Where is the Father? In heaven. Where is heaven with Jesus. Where is Jesus? In your heart. And remember that Jesus also said that in his father's house there are many many rooms and if it were not so he would have told you. Jesus does not lie, he is the truth. Any other thoughts in your head that would doubt that are just the enemy trying to get fear to grow in your spirit because the enemy came to steal, kill, and destroy, and never wants you to be with God in heaven as he promised you would be if you have him in your heart and know him. I used to get those doubts, but when I remember who Jesus is and that I have that relationship with him I now feel safe. It might take time to get it in your spirit but just remind yourself, or even say it out loud that you belong to Jesus and death has no hold on you because Jesus is life. Speaking words are powerful and God gave us his power to use (ofcourse using it without him is witchcraft but in this case you are speaking Gods word and that is something Good and approved by God). Anyhow God spoke us into existence so speaking his word in your life is powerful and good because God tells us to have the word written on our hearts.