Please help, girlfriend drinking.

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jennaleanne

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#21
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atwhatcost said:
There certainly is when he's playing the hero out to save the school marm in distress, but the reality is he and the school marm are both tied to the train tracks in different countries.

This isn't the real story. The story on the other forum may or may not be the real story, and yet look how many are trying to fix a situation they know so little about.

Sometimes I can offer a helping hand to someone, if they are truthful. No one can help if they're intentionally left in the dark. They can only hurt.
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There's a song by casting crowns.. Jesus friend of sinners we have strayed so far away, We cut down people in your name but the sword was never ours to sway. We are called to speak the truth in Love, Not bring condemnation to an already broken world. Its Gods love that changes us, nothing else. Whether the post is truthful or not shouldn't matter.. The post is a cry for help.. Whether it contradicts his other posts or not is irrelevant. Love shows no record of wrongs xx
 
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Practice-English

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Practice-English said:
Seriously
you're not able to stay single,
Wake UP!
You are just 19 years old !!!!
Come on!!!
That's so pity!!
I realized you're not Christian at all!
You flirt with her by knowing she are
addicted to drink and to smoke!
This' called BAD DESIRED!
You're superficial that's the reason
who always having S**** with her!
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I really want to apologize...
It was not mature from my part.
I'm not supposed to judge you
because only God can do it!
I'm sorry for sure!
When I wrote that I was really mad
because in fact I'll admit in public
that I was really jealous of all....
Jealousy is one of my big sins....
I'm seeing a social worker to help me in that...
But anyway I'm here to apologize seriously..
 
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WolfGaming

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#23
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Practice-English said:
I really want to apologize...
It was not mature from my part.
I'm not supposed to judge you
because only God can do it!
I'm sorry for sure!
When I wrote that I was really mad
because in fact I'll admit in public
that I was really jealous of all....
Jealousy is one of my big sins....
I'm seeing a social worker to help me in that...
But anyway I'm here to apologize seriously..
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by how he is acting would you say he is repenting and trning from this sin or is still in it and loving it if so he is not a true Christian am I right what does the bible call someone like this ? lukewarm maybe ? and if so he needs to change or well the bible tells us God will vomit them out of his mouth they make him sick and well that's just flipping scary.
 
Jakob

Jakob

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#24
Jul 15, 2014
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Hello everyone.
I am very sad that this post was taken the wrong way for some people.
I feel like a terrible human being. I did not want to be the "hero" or not mentioning my problems to get myself in a better light.
I just feel like, when we got into the relationship we BOTH knew we had problems, and that we could help each other, as in we understood each others struggle etc.
What I meant, or was trying to say was, that we both are aware that we are on the same train tracks.
I know that the train can come any minute, so I need to get away from the tracks, and seek God everyday.
And she just assumes the train is coming another day.
Does that makes sense to anyone?
I'm very sorry that it was taken this way.
Yes I am a sinner. Last time i last drank was 2 days ago, I made a new post, recording a 25 minute video where I talk.
I am on the right path now. Jesus loves me, the bible tells me so. So there is no need to be mean, or judgemental, cause I was lying on the train-tracks.
I'm sorry about all this.
 
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bowharp

Guest
#25
#25
Jakob said:
Hello everyone.
I am very sad that this post was taken the wrong way for some people.
I feel like a terrible human being. I did not want to be the "hero" or not mentioning my problems to get myself in a better light.
I just feel like, when we got into the relationship we BOTH knew we had problems, and that we could help each other, as in we understood each others struggle etc.
What I meant, or was trying to say was, that we both are aware that we are on the same train tracks.
I know that the train can come any minute, so I need to get away from the tracks, and seek God everyday.
And she just assumes the train is coming another day.
Does that makes sense to anyone?
I'm very sorry that it was taken this way.
Yes I am a sinner. Last time i last drank was 2 days ago, I made a new post, recording a 25 minute video where I talk.
I am on the right path now. Jesus loves me, the bible tells me so. So there is no need to be mean, or judgemental, cause I was lying on the train-tracks.
I'm sorry about all this.
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Hi Jakob,

Don't be sad :) Life is to short to be sad. We know Christ, there is joy in that! :)

It's cool, you really don't need to apologies. We are all sinner here and have fallen short on the mark. Hence, Jesus. :)

I think it's great you are reflecting your relationship with God and considering Him to be your personal God and one true saviour.

Good work in keeping away from the alcohol. Those only makes things worst. So well done on that.
 
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