I agree, I was watching a Mark Driscoll sermon the other day, and he pointed out that girls come up to his wife all the time asking how they got together and how they found each other...
So then he pointed out that the biggest audience population was in Male 20-25 year olds... And that the girls should have no problem finding a Godly man...
The women retort, went like so "yes they are Godly, but they are still children..." Which made Drsicoll preach on one of my most favorite sermons... (here is the link in case you are interested.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYBovk6MBEg
I personally find that the hardest thing for me to do at the age of 19 is to grow up, If I move out of my mothers house I don't even make enough to cover the rent by myself so I would have to have at least 2 other friends with me... Which sounds grown up in the short sight, but in the long run I see this happen with my old friends... They end up making it into a clubhouse and expect to live like that for the rest of their lives... No ambition to move on... In today's society everything makes it soo hard to become mature... The movies that are popular always showcase a stay at home son in his 30's - 40's living the fun life... Our economy is so inflated that a job between too kids can not rent a trailer with working utilities in my oilfield town (Which is extremely pathetic IMO).
But my biggest beef with the whole ordeal is that teens are brought up to be children, playing x-box, hanging with friends, running around with a allowance from mom's credit card. So instead of weaning the child off of the mom, we put cocaine into the formula then take it away at a heart beat... (taking out of personal experience for this whole reply)