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i need some teens advice!! what would u do, if u found out your mother a straight up selfish, money lovin liar!! my whole life feels like a staight up lie, and i don't know what to do!! i live with my dad now, and have since February. since i have lived with him and my step mom, iv'e started seeing the truth about my mother. she claims to be a christian, but yet she hates my dad so much, she's constently telling my brothers and I how worthless he is and how he wasn't there through my whole life, then why does he decide to be a father now.. well i thought about that, and my dad isn't the perfect dad, he was a women beater, iv'e seen him hit my mom many of times, but what im getting at is that she didn't want him in our lives. the times she told us he left, was accually her telling him to leave! he is now saved after 30 something years, and my mother can't stand that. my whole life she tried to tell us that she doesn't smoke, but yet we see her alll the time, and it annoying because she still denys it! she tried to tell me to get a job, when she taught me to do nothing on my own, she tried to tell me i couldn't live with my dad even though im 17 and way smarter than what she thinks, and when i did move with my dad, she tried to tell me im better off not getting my GED and just get a job to help her out when she gets $600 a month on meand she works., and she was afraid to lose that when i moved with my dad. she is so selfish. she cares way more about stupid money, then my education, and so worried about people finding out the truth about her.. im so sick of it.. what do i do?!?! today my dad got into it with her. and im just tired of being suck in between family drama!!!! and she always trys to buy my love, hoping that salves everything, im just so sick of her!!