All I want to know is why???

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sportygirl

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I feel used, hurt and betrayed. My ex, (we've been apart 1 month) is now dating another girl. Whom while we were dating he had told his mom he wanted his next girlfriend to be like this girl, whom is his roomate. Hes happy im lost...why?
 
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carpetmanswife

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Because men =
thats why :p
sincerely im sorry for your pain
 
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carpetmanswife

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yes my dear you are so young i understand you love this young man but apparently hes not the one for you ...so wait ..dont take anything less than God has for you coz i assure you He has the very best planned for your life . I truly wish you the best :)
 
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loeza89

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>_>since the previous post pretty much said what i was gonna say lol i will say this not all men are pigs you just got unlucky with the 75% that are lol XD
 
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MarineforGod

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Men, pigs? Wait a minute here. Not all of us are bad. Let me tell you about my history. My first girlfriend only dated me to get closer to my brother. Worst thing about it: he knew and so did all of our "mutual" friends. The second girlfriend that I spent three years with, asked to marry, one of the main reasons I joined the Corps called it all off a week before I deployed....Over the phone. After I flew her down to NC for just a day. Then this last one, I took time away from my family, time from leave drove from western Illinois to Virginia, spent A LOT OF MONEY and I sat in a hotel room alone for two days. So don't call us all pigs. Some of us are good. We can get the worse treatment also.
With your ex. Well, sometimes people are just dumb. Maybe he needed a change, things just happen sometimes.
 
shiningthrupain

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MarineforGod said:
Men, pigs? Wait a minute here. Not all of us are bad. Let me tell you about my history. My first girlfriend only dated me to get closer to my brother. Worst thing about it: he knew and so did all of our "mutual" friends. The second girlfriend that I spent three years with, asked to marry, one of the main reasons I joined the Corps called it all off a week before I deployed....Over the phone. After I flew her down to NC for just a day. Then this last one, I took time away from my family, time from leave drove from western Illinois to Virginia, spent A LOT OF MONEY and I sat in a hotel room alone for two days. So don't call us all pigs. Some of us are good. We can get the worse treatment also.
With your ex. Well, sometimes people are just dumb. Maybe he needed a change, things just happen sometimes.
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I'm sorry about your experience with the female gender..
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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:rolleyes: Man I'd be happy you broke up...he sounds like a winner...
 
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carpetmanswife

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MarineforGod said:
Men, pigs? Wait a minute here. Not all of us are bad. Let me tell you about my history. My first girlfriend only dated me to get closer to my brother. Worst thing about it: he knew and so did all of our "mutual" friends. The second girlfriend that I spent three years with, asked to marry, one of the main reasons I joined the Corps called it all off a week before I deployed....Over the phone. After I flew her down to NC for just a day. Then this last one, I took time away from my family, time from leave drove from western Illinois to Virginia, spent A LOT OF MONEY and I sat in a hotel room alone for two days. So don't call us all pigs. Some of us are good. We can get the worse treatment also.
With your ex. Well, sometimes people are just dumb. Maybe he needed a change, things just happen sometimes.
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hey i was just tryin to make her smile...thats all...lighten up dude...not all men are bad...just most:p
KIDDING!! :rolleyes::D
 
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sportygirl

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Thanks its just one of those situations that sometimes things are good, sometimes tehy are crappy. Since the girl is a mutual friend, whom he spent alot of time with when we were dating it just mamkes me look back at our entire relationship and it hurts. Im really trying to trust in God and give him everything, I definetly dont believe men are pigs lol...i dont even believe he is, if i did it would be soooo much easier.
 
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carpetmanswife

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sounds awful...trust issues too now probably eh?
 
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sportygirl

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I dont know about trust issues yet we'll see in my next relationship, how that appears. For now Im just trying to enjoy being single, and dreading the day when i run into my ex again....which will happen its unavoidable.
 
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carpetmanswife

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PRAIASEmyGOD said:
hey if men are pigs then, the woman ='s baby back ribs!
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i accept that :p

seriously men i was kiddin...no offense intended... hey i like men..i have one of my very own;)
and one of the best i might add :)
 
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