Hi everyone. I'm looking for some advice as to whether or not I should look for a new church.
My problem is this:
The church I attend has excellent doctrine and worship, but I just can't make friends.
I'm a pretty terrible conversationalist at the best of times, but in this case, I don't have anything in common with the people there. There's a cultural difference too as I'm the only white guy there. Everyone else knows eachother or are related to eachother. I'm pretty shy so I don't often approach people after the service. I feel like people take turns in talking to me, like they're not really interested in getting to know me, but they feel obligated to talk to the lonely guy. People are friendly but I feel like I will always have an outsider status.
Everyone seems to be talking to someone after the service except for me. Whenever this happens, I just leave. I'm a bit discouraged at the moment. I just don't see myself being integrated into the church. I've been going for about 6 months, which is the longest I've ever attended I church. I like everything about it, except I just don't feel like I belong there. The problem could well be with me and the fact that I am just quiet.
What should I do - any ideas?
My problem is this:
The church I attend has excellent doctrine and worship, but I just can't make friends.
I'm a pretty terrible conversationalist at the best of times, but in this case, I don't have anything in common with the people there. There's a cultural difference too as I'm the only white guy there. Everyone else knows eachother or are related to eachother. I'm pretty shy so I don't often approach people after the service. I feel like people take turns in talking to me, like they're not really interested in getting to know me, but they feel obligated to talk to the lonely guy. People are friendly but I feel like I will always have an outsider status.
Everyone seems to be talking to someone after the service except for me. Whenever this happens, I just leave. I'm a bit discouraged at the moment. I just don't see myself being integrated into the church. I've been going for about 6 months, which is the longest I've ever attended I church. I like everything about it, except I just don't feel like I belong there. The problem could well be with me and the fact that I am just quiet.
What should I do - any ideas?