Could we start a group for men struggling with certain things?

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eugenius

eugenius

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I am going through certain things that many young men struggle with. I have nobody to discuss these things with.I wish we could start a group on this site for men to talk about these things. Either in the forums or the chatrooms. These are some sensitive topics and I would not want to discuss this in the open forums.

Is there maybe already a group like this here somewhere?

I just know I have been trying to fight this myself and its not getting any better. Right when I have 1 semester of college to go, this stuff is messing me up. My last semester is going to be really difficult unless I fix this ASAP. Sorry for being so mysterious about what my issues are, but like I said its not something I want to discuss in open forums.
 
eugenius

eugenius

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And other things.... All that stuff..
 
Searching4Truth

Searching4Truth

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No clue. I have these problems myself but I don't talk to anyone about it in fear that they may see me as a disgusting pervert.
 
eugenius

eugenius

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Searching4Truth said:
No clue. I have these problems myself but I don't talk to anyone about it in fear that they may see me as a disgusting pervert.
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Well thats what I mean. Everyone does this. 99% of people just deny it. But those who do overcome it need to share their methods with the rest of us.

And anyway thats not the only thing I meant.
 
Searching4Truth

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Well, the difference between me and them is that I know what I am. The problem is getting the help and finding the right people to help me with it. :p
 
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yeah. its kinda weird. lol. i mean both sides go through it but its gonna be awkward for me to share my fight with porn with men. . . . . . .>_<

we should get a guy's forum too. ^_^
 
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Ugly

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Why didn't you post this in the 'Suggestions Forum' that was created for people to post ideas they would like to see on the site?

For the porn aspect try XXX Church <~~click link

As for the 'others' i have no idea as i don't know what the problem is.

My experience with Mens Forums on other sites is that they are rarely used. Few men posted, and even less responded. Really what we need is not a full forum on the subject, because honestly, i think that 90% of the people that would ever read it are all people who are struggling and have nothing to offer help to others. The problem is so common that people can tire of repeating the same answers because every poster wants answers directed at them, even though all the answers are the same for everyone.
Many times the guys don't even take the advice given. One of the requirements for overcoming porn is accountability. Yet men refuse to tell anyone. Another is blocks and filters on computers, yet many men refuse to have those as well.
 
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