I used to think that there was no way that God would allow someone to be born gay since he is clearly against it in the Bible. However, once sin was let into the world, God's perfect creation became flawed because of sin.. Now babies are born with disabilities and complications. How is it that God allows babies to die? Well, in my opinion, he doesn't. We chose to disobey God (I say we because I don't believe it was Adam and Eve's weakness - we all probably would have fallen in that situation). Now his world isn't perfect and things happen.. As for being born gay, with all the things that we do to this world, dumping chemicals into rivers and feeding animal protein to herbivores to make them bigger so that you can make more money off their sale, we are messing around with God's creation. They have found hormones in rivers/lakes that we get drinking water from. When you mess with things like that, there are going to be consequences. Who is to say that gay men or women that feel born that way don't have a different balance of various hormones that make them that way? I do believe that some gay people choose that lifestyle. But I don't think everyone does.