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The most effective way is say you have STD or Aids or any tranferrable disease through contact? Just kidding just like Breelyn said "Just start talking bible stuff with them 
" surely those unvirtuous ladies will lose interest on you.
" surely those unvirtuous ladies will lose interest on you.
no no i think your on to something, this is what you should do, you should make a slide show of herpes simplex 2.7 1/2 pop some popcorn, tell her that her favorite movie is on then BAM! pull the ol switcherooo on her, she'll never know what hit her
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I think the advice given so far would work if the question was 'how can i get my message across?'. But what his concern was 'how do i resist the temptation?' Or even how to prevent it at all. I've never much had that problem. Could be that 'stay away from me, i don't like you' vibe i emanate in real life. So i don't have much advice.
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At least you know they are attracted to you. I'm tall, tanned, and not too bad a shape. I'm friendly, gentle, and outgoing (if there aren't like a dozen people around more than that and I like my corner away from everyone), and for the life of me I can't get women to NOTICE me. I'm in college and it bites when I see couple after couple after couple, and wondering how this jerk here has gotten a girlfriend, this guy who permanently smells like armpit has a girlfriend, but I am somehow the odd man out. If they notice me at all I stay a friend... I've got more girl friends than I can count... i just need to figure out how to close that space between "girl" and "friend".
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How to say no to sex? Huh, the chance would be a fine thing.
I have never experienced this dilemma in all of my years on this earth, so I'm probably not much help. All I would suggest is that sex, and all the stages leading up to sex, require volition. In other words, it's not something that 'just happens', it requires your consent. So, you have ample opportunity to decline, but it's entirely up to you how you exercise your own will. I'd also suggest that temptation can highten the more stages along the road to coitus you travel, so if you're serious, you ought to be saying 'no' long before she's inviting you into her bedroom alone.
Then again, I've sat with lass in her bedroom for hours drinking cider. Nothing happened apart from some amusing Chevy Chase films, but as I said, I appear to be free from this affliction of exciting sexual desire in women wherever I pause. Perhaps I am to envied.
I have never experienced this dilemma in all of my years on this earth, so I'm probably not much help. All I would suggest is that sex, and all the stages leading up to sex, require volition. In other words, it's not something that 'just happens', it requires your consent. So, you have ample opportunity to decline, but it's entirely up to you how you exercise your own will. I'd also suggest that temptation can highten the more stages along the road to coitus you travel, so if you're serious, you ought to be saying 'no' long before she's inviting you into her bedroom alone.
Then again, I've sat with lass in her bedroom for hours drinking cider. Nothing happened apart from some amusing Chevy Chase films, but as I said, I appear to be free from this affliction of exciting sexual desire in women wherever I pause. Perhaps I am to envied.