Ugly, I don't believe that God causes bad things to happen to us. I believe that we do that to ourselves with the help of Satan's influence on our imperfect minds. After all, the world is lying in the power of the wicked one. (1 John 5:19)
I'm aware that God will help us endure hard times, but I don't believe he is intentionally "testing" us. Matter of fact, he has sympathy for us and doesn't want us to be plagued by the negative and pain that originates with Satan.
I don't think I'm being extreme, I'm taking the meaning of the scriptures and seeing how they apply to what I'm seeing and/or hearing. I would totally appreciate it if you or anyone else use the scriptures to support your own connections with what you're seeing and hearing in the world and here on the internet. I ask questions like; How do the scriptures apply to who we are, how we live and what we are doing in our times? What does God want from us? How are other people interpreting and applying the Bible principles and living according to God's Laws? I use the Bible as it was intended, a guide or manual. It's also kind of a map, because not all people who claim to be Christian really know what that means. We can only identify them and know what to look for if we have read and studied in the Bible ourselves. Jesus said there would be many confused ones, there will be people who follow men who claim to represent him, but who will actually mislead the sheep, because the devise their own teachings based loosely on the Bible. We can only know if someone is teaching their own interpretations or the truths of the Bible, if we ourselves know what the Bible says. You think I go too deep or extreme? Isn't that what God wants us to do? To get deeper into the meaning of what his words mean for us? I get what other people are saying. Do they get how they might be understood by someone else? I ask questions if I see a possible connection with my own understanding of the Bible and what someone might be saying.
I apologize if you are offended by my method of picking the scriptures apart, but that's how I was taught to learn the Bible. Whenever there is a question or situation, I go to the Bible and find every scripture and story that may apply or use the same language and get the sense of the importance of it. To learn how it could apply to my own attitude, behavior, choices, the way I treat others, how I speak, even how I develop my conscience so that I'm not so likely to give into wrongdoing. For instance, I know that if I willingly and repeatedly (practice) have sex with anyone that I'm not married to, then that would make me a fornicator and there is no sacrifice left for me if I apply the sense of the scripture at (Heb 10:26). All "Christians" should know that. Yet, sex is the #1 subject on this so-called "Christian" country's mind.
Once we come to know the God of the Bible, Jehovah God, and his son, Christ Jesus, we can't afford to make foolish mistakes, believing that 'once saved always saved'. We are supposed to, expected to learn and grow to get away from the weak and harmful thinking of the world. To stop being part of it. I'm just looking for conversation with people who appreciate God and seek to serve him in the same way I do.