Im bi. Is that a bad?

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I would like to address this thread kindheartedly, but yet enough for you to hear me out in what Christ has called you to do.

The problem isn't you "being bi" or being what ever it is, you think you're dealing with. The problem is, you aren't seeking God's face. Most of our problems would eventually get solved and rooted out when we are in the presence of God constantly, seeking Jesus wholeheartedly and giving up our life for righteousness sake.

That "Being Bi" wouldn't even stand a chance in the presence of God, because when you're with Jesus and walk with Him, you wouldn't even want that "Being Bi" to even exist. You'll want, "Being Christ."

So I commend and push you forward to give up your life, lay it down, put on your cross, and walk with Jesus wholeheartedly. Instead of seeking answers on the forum, seek answers from Jesus.
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Please hear me out here.

Reading through all the post and skimming through, I feel as if none of these replies that were giving to you in this thread were from Christ or from His heart. None of it, is anointed by the Spirit of God to change and move you. So I warn you in this, don't always listen to what you hear, but give your heart to the one who can answer all your questions, Jesus.

Look up to Christ, and not to instantaneous answers.
Do what God requires of you today, "Walk with me, lay down your life..."
Wow, I was with you until you decided to take it upon yourself to judge the heart of every reply.You might be surprised at how the Holy Spirit can move, even in responses that you judge as unanointed. God's ways are not our ways, and you don't get to decide where He is working and you definitely don't get to judge hearts. There are some who really gave of themselves here and some who didn't say much different from what you've said. I think you should rethink judging hearts and declaring where the anointing is or is not. It's also interesting and should be noted that you've told the OP not to listen to answers from a forum while writing your own answer on this same forum...Not cool, man. You can say your piece without putting down everyone else's. You don't know which one God may be speaking through and who needed to hear it.
 
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Wow, I was with you until you decided to take it upon yourself to judge the heart of every reply.You might be surprised at how the Holy Spirit can move, even in responses that you judge as unanointed. God's ways are not our ways, and you don't get to decide where He is working and you definitely don't get to judge hearts. There are some who really gave of themselves here and some who didn't say much different from what you've said. I think you should rethink judging hearts and declaring where the anointing is or is not. It's also interesting and should be noted that you've told the OP not to listen to answers from a forum while writing your own answer on this same forum...Not cool, man. You can say your piece without putting down everyone else's. You don't know which one God may be speaking through and who needed to hear it.
Misunderstanding, and accusation isn't from God. Hold your tongue, and understand a situation before you speak out against things you have no idea what you're talking about. Especially when it comes to understanding people, sometimes, you can misunderstand a certain meaning, and you take offense to it.

What I said, wasn't condemning nor judging anyone in a way that would hurt or harm them. There's a difference between condemnation, and judging righteously. You judge daily weather a light is green or red. Rather, some folks are good to hang out with, and if they are. By all means, God has called you to make those judgment. And the word of God is the discerning of the intent of the heart.

What's not cool is your disrespect to speak out against something, and accuse me of something, that you're ignorant in. Even Jesus flip tables, called the Samaritan woman "a dog," and told Peter, "Get behind me satan." Sometimes you have to address what isn't, and what is. I'm not going to sit here and say, "that truly everything that is said here isn't from God." Because I don't know, but what I do know is, half of the stuff I read, surely isn't from God. It's just from people opinions, feelings, what they experience, and what they self righteously dictated themselves according to what they've read ignorantly.

So by all means, let me break down what I was saying. I'm speaking against those who speak in such manner, and to the extent that instead of trusting in what people saying for instantoeous answer, because it may or may not be from the holy Spirit. Lets not take that chance, and lets hear from God himself. This is where we fall short. The shortness of waiting on God answer, to seek his face in matters concerning our life. Instead, we choose the easy route of asking for answers, from Pastors, from men, from women. Whatever the case is, we have stopped seeking the answer of God.

And in this case, it is very important that I call this out. For all in this forum, and for the young man who posted this thread. You can take offended and back biting matter somewhere else. If you're going to be offended at what God has called us to do, and what He has called me to do to disciple. That will be on you and you're on regulation. But as for me, offenses close doors to what God can do and to use people.

So please, take your discord, your misunderstanding, your accusation against me, else where. Proverbs speak clearly what you ought to have in your life. And before you open your mouth, think. Have understanding, wisdom, and discernment.
 
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Hi everyone,

I'm a 21 year old male and am bisexual. I'm not sure if its bad to be both sexually attracted men and women. Can anyone please help?

God clearly made marriage and therefore sex to be between a man and a woman.You need to pray and read the Bible and ask God to show you the truth.God always wants the best for you and only he knows what that is.Sincerely ask him and he will show you.
 
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erikanutella

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Hi everyone,

I'm a 21 year old male and am bisexual. I'm not sure if its bad to be both sexually attracted men and women. Can anyone please help?
Hi Brother
did all the answers here help u now? :)
I'm praying you will be enlightened and know the truth and the right answer to your question

God Bless ^_^
 
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Misunderstanding, and accusation isn't from God. Hold your tongue, and understand a situation before you speak out against things you have no idea what you're talking about. Especially when it comes to understanding people, sometimes, you can misunderstand a certain meaning, and you take offense to it.

What I said, wasn't condemning nor judging anyone in a way that would hurt or harm them. There's a difference between condemnation, and judging righteously. You judge daily weather a light is green or red. Rather, some folks are good to hang out with, and if they are. By all means, God has called you to make those judgment. And the word of God is the discerning of the intent of the heart.

What's not cool is your disrespect to speak out against something, and accuse me of something, that you're ignorant in. Even Jesus flip tables, called the Samaritan woman "a dog," and told Peter, "Get behind me satan." Sometimes you have to address what isn't, and what is. I'm not going to sit here and say, "that truly everything that is said here isn't from God." Because I don't know, but what I do know is, half of the stuff I read, surely isn't from God. It's just from people opinions, feelings, what they experience, and what they self righteously dictated themselves according to what they've read ignorantly.

So by all means, let me break down what I was saying. I'm speaking against those who speak in such manner, and to the extent that instead of trusting in what people saying for instantoeous answer, because it may or may not be from the holy Spirit. Lets not take that chance, and lets hear from God himself. This is where we fall short. The shortness of waiting on God answer, to seek his face in matters concerning our life. Instead, we choose the easy route of asking for answers, from Pastors, from men, from women. Whatever the case is, we have stopped seeking the answer of God.

And in this case, it is very important that I call this out. For all in this forum, and for the young man who posted this thread. You can take offended and back biting matter somewhere else. If you're going to be offended at what God has called us to do, and what He has called me to do to disciple. That will be on you and you're on regulation. But as for me, offenses close doors to what God can do and to use people.

So please, take your discord, your misunderstanding, your accusation against me, else where. Proverbs speak clearly what you ought to have in your life. And before you open your mouth, think. Have understanding, wisdom, and discernment.
There was no disrespect in my reply, and I didn't make up any accusations out of thin air. Your judgment was not righteous discernment, you are not being disrespected, and you are not being falsely accused. That's a card that many try to pull when someone rightfully calls them out for their words (and they don't like that, so they claim that God is somehow against their "accuser"). Your accusations are a tactic to distract from what I actually said to you. If there was any misunderstanding, it was from your wording in your last post, that "none of these replies were from Christ" and "none of it, is anointed by the Spirit of God". You made a blanket declaration judging the hearts and anointing of every post on this thread. And you continue to act as if you absolutely know how the Spirit moves in every situation and liken that kind of discernment to knowing the difference between red and green lights. Seriously? There is most certainly a difference between the daily observations we make and judgment of hearts, and if you go back and reread what you wrote without jumping to the defensive and responding out of feeling somehow "disrespected", you would probably see how you made that impression. I did plenty of thinking before responding; you just didn't like my thoughts. I almost didn't respond, but felt it necessary for you to know how your words came off. I didn't respond out of simple offense or simply to create discord. You can say my response wasn't from God or anointed by the Spirit to move or change you, but you probably shouldn't put it past God to offend you. He doesn't have to say anything you like, but you don't get to decide that something wasn't anointed or wasn't from God's heart because you didn't like it.

If in your discernment you only meant some responses, you could have said so in your first post instead of saying "none" and then conveniently blaming your audience for the misunderstanding you created. Stop deflecting.

You seem to think your discernment is infallible, but I'm sure that your discernment of my response was off, and it wouldn't surprise me if your discernment of this one is off too. If it helps you, I didn't respond out of offense earlier and I'm not now. It just needs to be said to you. Rebuke is not disrespectful and humility is important when the rebuke comes to you, not taking offense and backbiting. And that was another rebuke for you right there. Instead of lashing out against rebuke, maybe see if there's something you could use in it first. That's all I'll be saying to you on this.