I need your comments is it proper for a believer to marry an unbeliever believing she would changed or could change when you gget married
I read in the bible about the spouse becoming sanctified through the believer, but it really depends on the unbelievers and believers true status in their spirituality;
There are non - believers who are actually somewhat believers, just unsure, and believers who are dry believers, just believing in God for " perks" or to shimmy their way into heaven without any spiritual effort or care really.
If you get a strong believer and an open minded non - believer, good things could happen, or, nothing will happen and the non - believer won't change.
Or you'll get two very head strong people in their beliefs who will constantly butt heads and confuse the crud out of their future children.
Wickedness and righteousness don't have anything in common; you come to see the awkwardness of trying to understand God between the two of them - for one speaks a wisdom the other has a hard time understanding, because you always need God to understand the reality of God.
It's a tough line to walk for the believer, because non - believers function according to the ways of the world usually, as that's the only other reality outside of God. Your faith has to be pretty firm and if they are willing, the non - believer can come to follow you into faith.
I have a friend who was an atheist; he had a crush on me for the longest - never turned into anything, but I invited him to church and suddenly he can't get enough of bible studying and hearing the word of God.
Love my God so much - he blesses many and gives so many mercy.
God Bless.