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I'm 21 married for over a year now with an eleven month old and another baby due any day. I'm trying to walk the path God wants me too but it's hard when my marriage is struggling. My husband cheated on me with a neighbor days before our wedding last november then again about march! I have been faithful to him since we met I try forgiving him but something always brings it up. He doesn't even act like he is sorry either. A few hours ago I found porn on his history this hurt me so much as I feel like he is cheating on me again. When I confronted him of course he lied then brought up cheating on me and said he laughed about it. I give him whatever he wants sexually. i do whatever he asks even tho im 9 months pregnant i do all the house work an cant ask help from him with our 11 month old. He will occasionally help with small things then it back to his friends or a game. He ignores my feelings and needs and puts everything before me. He has been with at least two other women and looks at porn. I'm trying to live a normal life being married a house wife with children. But it's hard when I'm treated so wrong. I don't believe in divorce I keep wishing he would just change. We started going to church about 6 months ago too at first he stopped everything pills, drinking and pot. We always made a way to church no matter what. Now we rarely make service our church is an hour away. And he has been smoking pot daily buying a few times a week if he runs out he finds a way to get more. All I want is to have a loving marriage a be a good mother. I'm so confused on what to do and how to handle this mental stress and abuse. Any advice would be appreciated.