T
Ok. Nothing wrong with the relationship as it's going great. However here is the background information and then i'll explain the tiny problem.
I'm 17 going to be 18 in roughly a month. I may be young but i have seen a lot and feel a lot older then what i am mentally so that's why i'm posting here. I'm dating a girl who just turned 16 in May and she still is a bit of a kid but i can't blame her and i wouldn't make her grow up to quick, i had to and i couldn't put her through that. So she is just starting her Junior year of highschool and i'm starting college for diesel mechanics. It's a two year program then i plan to move up to Wisconsin where she lives from Ohio.
So here is the issue. She is really worried that i will find some college girl and break up with her. Now i'm telling her i won't because i won't. I have put too much on the line for her. I drove 3 hours to work with her dad who i never met so he could size me up and see if i was good enough for his daughter. I drove 7+ hours and 700 miles to visit her when her dad said i could. I hurt like i never had when i had to go home. The girl is my life, she is my other half and i love her to death. We have been together since April and talking since February.
So how do i help ease her mind? I know she knows deep down in her heart that i would never leave her but she is 16 and she can't help she has that nagging fear. It's natural. I'm beginning to think all i can do is just keep showing her my love and let her see over time that "Hey, he went to college, got through a semester, and hasn't left me so he won't". Sortof learn by epxerience? Make any sense? Give me your input please. I'm praying on it and what have you but having input from others helps.
Dan
I'm 17 going to be 18 in roughly a month. I may be young but i have seen a lot and feel a lot older then what i am mentally so that's why i'm posting here. I'm dating a girl who just turned 16 in May and she still is a bit of a kid but i can't blame her and i wouldn't make her grow up to quick, i had to and i couldn't put her through that. So she is just starting her Junior year of highschool and i'm starting college for diesel mechanics. It's a two year program then i plan to move up to Wisconsin where she lives from Ohio.
So here is the issue. She is really worried that i will find some college girl and break up with her. Now i'm telling her i won't because i won't. I have put too much on the line for her. I drove 3 hours to work with her dad who i never met so he could size me up and see if i was good enough for his daughter. I drove 7+ hours and 700 miles to visit her when her dad said i could. I hurt like i never had when i had to go home. The girl is my life, she is my other half and i love her to death. We have been together since April and talking since February.
So how do i help ease her mind? I know she knows deep down in her heart that i would never leave her but she is 16 and she can't help she has that nagging fear. It's natural. I'm beginning to think all i can do is just keep showing her my love and let her see over time that "Hey, he went to college, got through a semester, and hasn't left me so he won't". Sortof learn by epxerience? Make any sense? Give me your input please. I'm praying on it and what have you but having input from others helps.
Dan