Saving your first Kiss for marriage =]

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sunnygurl

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I think it is a very honourable thing to do, not sure about the posting it on utube, that kind of makes it a bit of a spectacular but each to their own. If I could turn back the clock and be able to achieve that, I would not want to upload it to Utube but would want to get lots of photos and a video of that moment for myself.

I agree it is cool!!! ;)
All Godly power to those that make that decision as a gift to their future spouse. <3 :D
 
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alienambassador

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eugenius said:
I think saving sex for marriage is a good idea, but kissing. Thats going a bit too far. How will you even know you actually love each other? What if you get married and then on your wedding day you realize youre not attracted to your spouse. Thats pretty bad. Think about it.
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You don't have to kiss someone to be attracted to them. Plus, kissing should not be used as proof or assurance of love. Does Jesus kiss you? How do you know he loves you?
 
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alienambassador

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exbi-savedbygrace said:
"We got a gotta have it habit/ want to try it before we buy it/ simply gluttons for the lusting and hate going on a diet/We don't think about whats wholesome we just want the whole sum/We don't want new habits we like going to the old ones/They say that boy is queer cause he never kissed a girl/But that boy is serving God so he dismiss the world/ He wants to keep his whole self pure/ Isn't that a weird thing/ And he holding firm until his miss wearing that clear ring/No kisses for his misses til she takin on his last name/the church is laughin at them both talkin saying "thats lame"/But they aint trippin off this culture most of these Christians carnal/which means they're not Christian at all nope not even partial/ now what is funny they call it awkward if you wait to share your lips/with only one man at the altar wait to share his kiss/but the Christ didnt flirt or play with another bride/ we will only look into His face when He crack the skies/ but these folks are sayin it'll be wierd if you haven't tried/ first experiences are best when they occur once everytime"
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Sir, I do not know who you are, but you, sir, are a boss.
 
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Samohito

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Zork said:
So I just wanted to suggest this idea, I think it's cool
People have done it and posted videos on youtube of their wedding days of sharing their first kiss.
I know a guy whos doing it as a defense against lust and staying pure and as a gift for his wife.
I figured hey its a great idea to share, if you don't know about it already.
So what do you people think? :)
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I think that's good idea. But being relationship with someone sometimes you need to express your feeling with hugging, kissing, either it's your lust or love. I think the most important is to control your self for not being lust.
 
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Nuns_n_roses

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I totally understand waiting for a make out session until marriage, but I am a very physically affectionate person. I love platonic cuddling and hugs with friends. I don't see myself waiting to kiss if it's a peck on the cheek or quick kiss on the lips, but I respect people who know their limits definately. :)
 
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WordGaurdian

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I think it creates a false concept or ideology in people's minds. Staying pure of lust is good. Saving your first kiss for marriage is only going to bring dissappointment. Why? Well people are all different. Some will save their first kiss, others won't. You would save your first kiss for your wife and she will not. Or the other way around. Now you feel betrayed. Betrayel leads to resentment. Resentment leads to anger. Anger leads to unforgiveness and you start to fight over nonsense. Not a good idea at all. In fact I think it is terrible. If you so happen to give your husband the first kiss that you ever give someone. Ok. But don't make it a thing. Rather give yourself pure and clean to your wife or husband. Without lies. Without false pretences. Just simple and pure. Because one couple would do it, and because it was succesful for them, they think everybody should follow suit. It won't work. Accept that your partner would one day not be like you.
 
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