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S
There are many Christians who are Christians by name only. There are also Christians who struggle with certain sin. We are always under attack from darkness and being tested and tempted. Christ was tempted by satan but turned to God to avoid sin. This is our example of how to put on the full armor of God and resist sin.
God does forgive us of our sins but we are to repent and move forward resisting sin. You must walk in the spirit. We are all slaves to either the flesh and this world or to Christ and the word of God. The choice is yours.
God does forgive us of our sins but we are to repent and move forward resisting sin. You must walk in the spirit. We are all slaves to either the flesh and this world or to Christ and the word of God. The choice is yours.
J
Bible is pretty clear methinks.
1 Corinthians 7:2 (NIV84)
2 But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.
Hebrews 13:4 (NIV84)
4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
1 Corinthians 7:2 (NIV84)
2 But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.
Hebrews 13:4 (NIV84)
4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
B
Yep sex before marriage is wrong. God clearly says it in the bible not to before you are married.. I also think if it someone did have sex before marriage, God would forgive them if they came before God with an humble heart about it and were sincerely wrong. Some people may also even try to find the littlest was to make it seem okay, or try to say "God will forgive me" before they do it. Or any sin before its commited. And like Stephen said if a christian guy claims to say it is okay-it most def is not.. some guys will do that just do get what they want, and leave you for good. Watch out for those types. But to answer you question it is wrong to have sex before marriage. Don't let anyone try to trick you and tell you otherwise 
B
If it's written down. There's nothing left to say about the yes or the no. It's as clear as day. The trouble comes when your body wants something your spirit says, I don't need this. That's the beginning of most Christian's confusion whether it's legitimate confusion or just giving up on wanting to please God over yourself.
R
Sex before marriage is hardly every a good thing, it is deceiving, because there is not commitment, and then everyone gets hurt.
Of course God forgives, in my opinion, since you ask, and we all have opinions, God is not as judgemental and harsh, and condemning as you are seeming to portray with your question.
Yes, those feelings and that type of treatment by others, makes some repent and realize what they are doing is wrong, but then it hurts way more than the good is accomplishes.
More normal, is for us to use our common sense. Even if it makes us seem like children again.
It is difficult, I am not saying it is not, especially when we are at a certain age, and ready, and then we have to abide by rules, our bodies say "I AM READY" And it really is, because our bodies are meant to have sex according to God and feel that, but then when you can't do what God says is allowed because you aren't legally married, it is a little sufffering. But i guess being alive is better than only missing out on sex.
Hopefully my opinion increased and satisfied your quest for knowledge.
Have a good day.
Of course God forgives, in my opinion, since you ask, and we all have opinions, God is not as judgemental and harsh, and condemning as you are seeming to portray with your question.
Yes, those feelings and that type of treatment by others, makes some repent and realize what they are doing is wrong, but then it hurts way more than the good is accomplishes.
More normal, is for us to use our common sense. Even if it makes us seem like children again.
It is difficult, I am not saying it is not, especially when we are at a certain age, and ready, and then we have to abide by rules, our bodies say "I AM READY" And it really is, because our bodies are meant to have sex according to God and feel that, but then when you can't do what God says is allowed because you aren't legally married, it is a little sufffering. But i guess being alive is better than only missing out on sex.
Hopefully my opinion increased and satisfied your quest for knowledge.
Have a good day.
The reason why so many give into the temptation is because they toe the line with lust. From the words of Joshua Harris "Sex isn't the problem lust is". If a person is living a life that stirs up the lust fires they're going to be defeated. High standards are a good thing. As for the second part of your question: absolutely! God will forgive and wash away the penalty of the sin. The consequences may remain, pregnancy, STD's, etc, but God is willing and able to forgive completely.