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during my freshman year of college, I had this really close group of friends. It consisted of 4 girls and 1 guy. Me and nate were really close, I told him things that no one else knows about me. But of course, I fell for him. He led me to believe that he was interested too, but I think he was just torn. Long story short, he ended up dating one of my friends ( i had a hard time forgiving her, but I did). He promised me that nothing would change, and we would still remain great friends. I considered us to be so close throughout this, because even though he was the reason I was upset, he wanted to help me get through it ok, he really cared. So, I got over it and things started off good, but soon went downhill. Soon they started ditching me and the rest of our friends. They stopped eating meals with us, and stopped hanging out with us. It wasn't the same. So, eventually, me and one other friend confronted them. We wrote jess a letter, saying how we felt that she had been diting us all of the time for her boyfriend, and how they never hang out or talk to us anymore. Well, that didn't go over well. Nate actually got really mad, and Jess stopped talking to us. They both blocked us on facebook, and we havn't talked since.
I was hurt by this, I suppose I should have been nicer in my letter, but my feelings had been really hurt. that was my freshmen year. This past year, (my sophomore) I sent them both a Christmas card....saying how I missed them and how I wished we could work it out. I never heard from them. We still havn't talked.
I still miss them though, him more than her. I think it's because me and him were just so close, and he ended our friendship just because he felt like I was treating his girlfriend badly. I want so bad to just write them again and try to get through to them, but I don't know if i've already done all I can do? God calls us to forgive and be at peace with one another. I forgive them, but why can't they do the same? I tried with the Christmas card....should I try again?? Or just let it go?? anyone have thoughts?
I was hurt by this, I suppose I should have been nicer in my letter, but my feelings had been really hurt. that was my freshmen year. This past year, (my sophomore) I sent them both a Christmas card....saying how I missed them and how I wished we could work it out. I never heard from them. We still havn't talked.
I still miss them though, him more than her. I think it's because me and him were just so close, and he ended our friendship just because he felt like I was treating his girlfriend badly. I want so bad to just write them again and try to get through to them, but I don't know if i've already done all I can do? God calls us to forgive and be at peace with one another. I forgive them, but why can't they do the same? I tried with the Christmas card....should I try again?? Or just let it go?? anyone have thoughts?