Wisdom dictates that if you explain a thing twice to a reasonably intelligent person and an issue remains, they understand, they simply don't like your answer. I'm not the One telling you that we are supposed to obey those God has put in authority over us. The Word says it:
I Peter 2 v13 Obey all people who have authority in this world. Obey them, because that will make the *Lord happy. Obey the king, who rules everyone. v14 Also obey those officers of the government that the king has chosen to rule you. They *punish people who do wrong things. And they say good words about people who do right things. v15 God wants you to do what is right. Then you will stop silly people, who do not know anything, from saying bad things about you. v16 You are people who are free. But do not think, because of that, that you have the chance to do bad things. Do not think that God will excuse you for bad things. Instead, do those things that God’s servants should do
Rom 13:1,3-4,6 (NIV) Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established... Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and he will commend you. For he is God's servant to do you good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword for nothing... This is why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing.
Jimmy has already made it clear that to obey any law that forbids us to share the gospel would clearly be against the
higher commandments that God has given us, and it would, as I have said numerous times already, be an entirely different matter. Having said that, we need to be prepared to pay the penalty for doing so, as many have and do, which is still death in many cases.
I'm not going to chase the jaywalking/pillow strawmen with you, but I will answer the hitchhiking thing because it does actually apply to some things I said earlier. Even within our country's laws there is something called a "reasonable man" standard, which means that what a reasonable man would do in a given situation can be considered in a court of law. It's called the "spirit of the law". Jesus talked about this same thing when He spoke about The Good Samaritan who helped when the Pharisees did not, along with the livestock falling in the ditch thing. This is why I said that if someone has a
valid prescription indicating that this is the best medical treatment for their ailment, it would not fall under the scripture (and I do apologize for my chapter 12 typo, it's 13, as posted above). HOWEVER, with all of the medications available to combat anxiety and violent behaviors, I find it very difficult to believe that illegally obtained pot is the only or best answer.
In all sincerity I will be praying for you in your struggles. Peace be with you. Truly.