So.. this is love?

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Oct 11, 2012
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#1

Alas, if only it were that simple.


So, what I want to know is:

Are you in currently in love?
Have you ever been in love?
How did you know when you were in love?

What were some of the signs?
Do you believe in love at all?

 
R

_Ryan_

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#2
Yes, I am in love with this beautiful girl I met 2 years ago in school named Rhiannon.
I knew the first time I saw her, she was a girl I wanted to know better, and although I knew many girls in high school, I never had the feelings for them that I had the first time I saw her.

How do you know when your in love? For one thing, she makes me feel good about myself,
nothing is as peaceful and relaxing as being around her, neither of us think we need to test each others loyalties, she feels the same way about me that I do her, before making any decisions about where we go out, or other things that come up in a relationship, we ask each other how we feel, and care about how each other feels.
Another good indication it's love, is when I think about the future, and Rhiannon is in it with me.

You will know it when it happens, it's a feeling like you never experienced before, far more intense than any infatuation you ever had.

It is by far, the best feeling in the world.


 
K

kenisyes

Guest
#3
I guess I'm a graduate of love. My wife died last June. I gave her to the arms of Jesus myself. I laid in the position she died in, and saw the door of heaven opening before me.

The Holy Spirit proposed. Jesus came in personally and performed the ceremony. You can read more at my website. My name is Ken Behrens starting about paragraph 13.

Signs? Well, she is the only person I could ever talk to for more than 2 hours. We had so much in common, it was scary. Read about the unique date God planned for us (but not around Halloween). I'm not sure I understand about "in love". I know love is a choice, and marriage is a joint ministry - to each other and to the future. Another good indication I think is how you fight. If you can argue, and know it's just like talking inside your own head, only it takes longer because you have to put it into English, that's a good sign. When you really get heated, and you want so bad to call it quits, and walk out the door, but you know God won't let you, that's a good thing. Another thing is, are your expectations for life compatible; can it work in the real world? Jesus has a Bride, and He's got us here until He comes back, making it work on earth first - His ministry, and ours, together. If you have learned to know when it's God, you know when it's right. If it's right, you will discover God together. In my case, for 31 years.