You know you're dating the wrong person when......

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TheKringledOne

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When they take a rusty knife to your back it is usually a good sign that you aren't with the right person.
 
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Ugly

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#22
1) Yes,
2) Hey, sure, why not?
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3) Good, maybe you can teach him how to NOT swing it next to anybody's head.
#3 Makes no sense. That's half the fun.
 
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MissCris

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#23
#3 Makes no sense. That's half the fun.
Oh...is that what was going on? He made me think I was going to die because it was fun?

Guys...can't live with 'em, can't convince 'em it's bad manners to nearly slice your head off with a sword.
 

JGPS

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Another big turn off for me would be a girl who says that she hates kids or doesn't want to have children somewhere in the first few years of marriage.
It's more critical for me since I have children, and being with me is becoming part of a family.

But yeah, even under normal circumstances that would be a pretty big turn off.
 
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beautygirl

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#25
When they are manipulating, and controlling you and don't respect you
 
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Ugly

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#26
Oh...is that what was going on? He made me think I was going to die because it was fun?

Guys...can't live with 'em, can't convince 'em it's bad manners to nearly slice your head off with a sword.
No, silly, it was fun to make you think you were going to die. Women!

Women.. can't live with em................ that's it. Just can't live with them.
 

Photoss

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Sep 15, 2012
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#27
When you don't respect them / they don't respect you.
 
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kayem77

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#28
When we can't communicate. That kills it for me. There could be other reasons but that would be a big one.
 
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#29
when they are incapable of apologizing. when you try to picture raising a family with them or even ministering with them in some capacity, and you can't.

WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL THE PEACE OF GOD OVER THE RELATIONSHIP.

when disagreements end with dissension rather than peace. everyone will have disagreements from time to time. it's the way people deal with- or don't deal with as the case may be- with them.
 
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GraceRevelation

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#30
Red flags! When you feel like somethings not right in the relationship or about that person take notice of it.God gave women a great gift it's called intuition. Listen to that feeling. I can't tell you how many times I've ignored that feeling and payed for it in the end. I'm learning to listen to those feelings (which are from the Lord) and I tell you I feel like I'm dodging some bullets. I think too many people right off those feelings and warnings they feel. They end up giving their partner the benefit of the doubt.
 
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Nuns_n_roses

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#31
When you would be happier being single and on your own than when you're with someone, there is no longer an investment in that relationship.
 
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SHINY707

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#32
When God gives you a warning through dreams or visions. Though I never dated anyone yet, but there were few who showed interest ,I got warnings from God to stay away from them. God knows best.
 

TheAristocat

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When they're happier around everyone else besides you.
 
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MidniteWelder

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#34
When someone is always looking for a reason or a red flag,
you're sure to find one
 
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kring2

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#35
I guess your right. Reading your answer make me think a lot of my boyfriend.
 
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LiseStubbs

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#36
When they don't show the same level of responsibility or acceptance you do. When they act on impulse more than well-thought out decisions.

I finally met my ex who I had a long term relationship for a year, in person last summer. It felt like a honey moon we traveled his country (England/Scotland) and I felt comfortable and relaxed with him. Though some things bothered me. He wasn't very accepting and kind of hypocritical. I started to feel like I couldn't express my views about things without him jumping on me. I struggling with my faith, not that I don't believe, I just not concrete on the extent of my belief. Well I mentioned my belief to him and he flipped (he's a very aggressive atheist) He was also more concerned with frivolous things such as video games ( I love me a good video game) instead of making sure he could take care of himself in a fully independent way. When I returned home it started getting worse. I would go to work and the one day off I had at the time I would want to use to talk to him but he continually would go out with his buddies on that night.

When I met someone else who was on the same wave length as me and we became friends my ex got very upset and ended up having a temper tantrum and breaking up with me.

When I look back I'm glad he broke up with me, though I wish I would have seen the real him before I spent 3000 dollars going to the UK. I could have spent it or saved it for an even better trip with my bestfriend instead.
 
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#38
when you see toxic patterns in their life that they are unwilling to resolve.
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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#39
I viewed this specifically to see Keren's post. :)
 
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BlessedLovedByGod

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#40
I learned my lesson.
When this guy cannot answer his phone infront of you. His hiding something!