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Hi everyone, I've had an account here for awhile, but haven't posted too much.
I have a question, but first I must give the background, I'll try to keep it short.
I first discovered the Filipina culture in 2012 while working nights. Long story short, I met a lady in Manila, very spontaneous and we clicked very well. We had an online romance for 2+ years and then I visited her in Nov 2014. There were some red flags & issues but we honestly loved each other.
Fast forward to March 2015. We split up and I found someone else. I've now been with this girl for over a year and visited her in February 2016. We get along great, no issues. She has a good career there. Where I'm struggling is the connection, conversation and romance aspect is much less than with the first lady. I found out that the first one is getting married and it has hit me hard. She texted me at 2am to make sure I knew..
My head tells me that I'm with the right one now, my heart misses the first one terribly. I know that ship has sailed though.
How do I draw out the girl I'm with now? I'm sending her romantic tagalog phrases & pictures. Our conversation hasn't advanced past a superficial level.
In her defense, she has a heart of gold and has made very good decisions with her life. I don't think she has a lot of relationship experience, she had one heartbreaking relationship and then focused on her career. She is a Proverbs 31 woman.
I guess I'm still battling to get the other one of of my head...
I have a question, but first I must give the background, I'll try to keep it short.
I first discovered the Filipina culture in 2012 while working nights. Long story short, I met a lady in Manila, very spontaneous and we clicked very well. We had an online romance for 2+ years and then I visited her in Nov 2014. There were some red flags & issues but we honestly loved each other.
Fast forward to March 2015. We split up and I found someone else. I've now been with this girl for over a year and visited her in February 2016. We get along great, no issues. She has a good career there. Where I'm struggling is the connection, conversation and romance aspect is much less than with the first lady. I found out that the first one is getting married and it has hit me hard. She texted me at 2am to make sure I knew..
My head tells me that I'm with the right one now, my heart misses the first one terribly. I know that ship has sailed though.
How do I draw out the girl I'm with now? I'm sending her romantic tagalog phrases & pictures. Our conversation hasn't advanced past a superficial level.
In her defense, she has a heart of gold and has made very good decisions with her life. I don't think she has a lot of relationship experience, she had one heartbreaking relationship and then focused on her career. She is a Proverbs 31 woman.
I guess I'm still battling to get the other one of of my head...