Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

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i was called that yesterday on here actually brah....... i thought someone had a typo with the h on the end of it
 
Haha, I thought you knew what it meant, which is why I made the joke about support... that probably just confused you more...
 
LOL i knew what you meant... i was being saaaarcastic........ maybe i should knock that off..... nobody can hear my tone of voice
 
There should be some kind of standard font-tone system. Like, Comic Sans is sarcasm, Arial is no nonsense, and Bookman Old Style is pomposity or holier than thou...
 
So yeah, I figured out 2 things that'll help me make friends easier(Which is something I also really need to do.)

Become less selfish...
Become less shy...

The question is how do I do that?
 
dothackzero said:
So yeah, I figured out 2 things that'll help me make friends easier(Which is something I also really need to do.)

Become less selfish...
Become less shy...

The question is how do I do that?
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Ask questions about other people during conversation. It should help with both.
 
Baptistrw said:
Ask questions about other people during conversation. It should help with both.
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^^ i agree. when other people talk about themselves you don't have to weorry about being selfish. and it's easier to not be shy because all the pressure is on them
 
Honestly...u sound like a really nice and clean cut kinda guy and thats really kewl u sound like ur straight up and forreall...but honestly...for a wihle I personally was in to "bad" guys n stuff and I think when girls are teenagers they go thru a thing...idk...but im prayin for u and Im sry that uve had to go thru this..
 
Baptistrw said:
Ask questions about other people during conversation. It should help with both.
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^^ Yes, very good advice. And while they are talking, don't spend the time thinking about what you're going to say next. I'm not saying that you do that, it's just good advice for everyone.
 
Just out of curiosity, have you ever asked a girl out? I have met many guys that may think a girl is attractive inside and outside and may want to get her know her better but never ask her out. People will surprise you and a person might say yes that you didn't think was going to say yes.
 
luke15chick said:
Just out of curiosity, have you ever asked a girl out? I have met many guys that may think a girl is attractive inside and outside and may want to get her know her better but never ask her out. People will surprise you and a person might say yes that you didn't think was going to say yes.
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This is a great point. I know there's the fear of rejection, but honestly, that's something that most people fear. But if you never ask, then you never know. Also, the advice about asking questions is graet! I'm also shy, and I struggle with making conversation with someone in person. My last job I worked in a store selling window blinds and shades, and part of what we had to do was get to know the customer. That is even harder, because most people don't want to chat it up with a "salesperson" - they just want you to give them information so they can leave. And some are reluctant. But if you start asking questions and show a general interest in them, they begin talking about themselves and it does ease the pressure.

I also like what Musical said about not thinking what you're going to say next. That should come naturally if you're listening well. And as you keep asking questions, you may hit on a subject where you have similar opinions or similar interests. And talking with someone about things that you're passionate about is easy. Start off with basic, "get to know you" type questions and see how that works.

And then, just pray for God to guide you. ;)
 
luke15chick said:
Just out of curiosity, have you ever asked a girl out? I have met many guys that may think a girl is attractive inside and outside and may want to get her know her better but never ask her out. People will surprise you and a person might say yes that you didn't think was going to say yes.
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Actually the one time I actually asked a girl out, and she said yes... She ditched me for the super bowl... ;_;
 
Hey I'm shure you will find that girl you just need to have patience the day will come..see I was single for almost two years and my sister tolled me once wait for god he will give you a boy friend.but saddly I never lisend and things went soo bad for me, but know iv learned to wait..
 
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