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K
I think there are 2 important things to consider here. The child's physical needs (as per survival) and the child's psychological/spiritual/mental needs. the former is tangible and the later is intangible. I believe if the intangible needs are adequately met in a child's life, the tangible would automatically follow, the bible confirms this- Seek ye first the kingdom of God and every other thing would be added unto you. As a man thinks in his heart so is he.
That being said, i think its the duty of the adoption agency to determine what the priority is in the child's best interest. I agree that there are instances where traditional couple (male-female) do not adequately take care of their kids, but shouldn't that be the reason why the adoption system must do the right thing? Adoption is a way of giving a child a second chance to a better life and for me it's the intangible needs that matter the most.
That being said, i think its the duty of the adoption agency to determine what the priority is in the child's best interest. I agree that there are instances where traditional couple (male-female) do not adequately take care of their kids, but shouldn't that be the reason why the adoption system must do the right thing? Adoption is a way of giving a child a second chance to a better life and for me it's the intangible needs that matter the most.
K
Absolutely not. You misunderstand. I wasn't implying anything. I was speaking of a hypothetical situation in which we have 2 options for adoption parents. On one hand, you have a a heterosexual couple who has a lot of financial and legal problems. Maybe the husband or wife has been in jail a few times, etc...etc... and on the contrary you have a gay couple whose record is clean and they have nothing but good recommendations. They are kind, loving people, etc... and they are not criminals who steal and whatnot.
This is a fantasy hypothetical situation. I realize in reality an adoption agency would never let said heterosexual couple adopt anyway because of their track record. But it seems some of you hold that "heterosexual" thing in such a high regard that you would be more inclined to give the kid up to a heterosexual family with serious problems, rather than a perfectly fine gay family solely on the assertion that they are gay. There ARE more important things in life than the silly gay debate. Does this make sense?
This is a fantasy hypothetical situation. I realize in reality an adoption agency would never let said heterosexual couple adopt anyway because of their track record. But it seems some of you hold that "heterosexual" thing in such a high regard that you would be more inclined to give the kid up to a heterosexual family with serious problems, rather than a perfectly fine gay family solely on the assertion that they are gay. There ARE more important things in life than the silly gay debate. Does this make sense?
L
Yes, I believe that it matters what one believes because of their intent. Based upon her opening statements, “…Christians are so stereotypical…” it seems that she is researching from a biased position.
Now the posed question is to her but out of courtesy, I am responding to you because I am a nice person.
I say again Amen to “No, just No…” when it comes to Gay couples adopting children.
Should you have any further question, I will be happy to answer them with the same courtesy shown to you in this post.
Jesus reigns.
Now the posed question is to her but out of courtesy, I am responding to you because I am a nice person.
I say again Amen to “No, just No…” when it comes to Gay couples adopting children.
Should you have any further question, I will be happy to answer them with the same courtesy shown to you in this post.
Jesus reigns.
L
To All True Christians Participating In This Thread:
What does the Bible say about this subject? As Christians, the Word of God should be our authority on the matter posed by the social researcher. She referred to every Christian at the CC as being "stereotypical" and we as participants should ask questions concerning her comment and if she is a Christian. Personally, I do not volunteer information at random. For those that are concerned, this is not a public forum--it is private. She is asking questions that will have public consequences upon each and every Christian's life in this society and upon the future of our children. Are any of you concerned?
Something to think about:
Every research paper submitted by a college level student is submitted to the Library of Congress.
"Who speaks for the children?" they who rear them. "Who psychologically influences children most?" they who rear them.
Jesus Reigns and based upon the signs being manifested throughout the world, He is soon to return. Anathema maranatha.
What does the Bible say about this subject? As Christians, the Word of God should be our authority on the matter posed by the social researcher. She referred to every Christian at the CC as being "stereotypical" and we as participants should ask questions concerning her comment and if she is a Christian. Personally, I do not volunteer information at random. For those that are concerned, this is not a public forum--it is private. She is asking questions that will have public consequences upon each and every Christian's life in this society and upon the future of our children. Are any of you concerned?
Something to think about:
Every research paper submitted by a college level student is submitted to the Library of Congress.
"Who speaks for the children?" they who rear them. "Who psychologically influences children most?" they who rear them.
Jesus Reigns and based upon the signs being manifested throughout the world, He is soon to return. Anathema maranatha.
S
She was also called out on that in another forum and apologized for the label. I don't think she meant offense.
While I also have no gripes with being inquisitive on either end, I don't think you need to demand her worldview before providing your opinion; but that's just my opinion.
It's really not. How do you figure otherwise?
Isn't that a bit of a discrepancy? Or am I missing something?
L
She was also called out on that in another forum and apologized for the label. I don't think she meant offense.
While I also have no gripes with being inquisitive on either end, I don't think you need to demand her worldview before providing your opinion; but that's just my opinion.
It's really not. How do you figure otherwise?
Isn't that a bit of a discrepancy? Or am I missing something?
I do admire your passion and how you have seemingly taken ownership of a subject that had nothing to do with you.
I have a few questions for you though, all in the Love of Jesus; none of the following is to be misconstrued as negative:
Was the question directed to you?
Are you directly involved with her research as a decision maker?
Worldview/Demand, whatever are you referring to?
Was my questions directed to you or her?
Did the researcher open the discussion to all that desired to participate?
There is no demand and certainly my right to ask for accountability on the part of any researcher...how many research projects have you performed? Do you know what the professional etiquette requirements are for performing a research project within a set/existing cultural environment?
"Discrepancy?" you missed allot my friend. Am I missing a deeper intent on your part?
I warn you, I am not a weak Christian and I do not run, so if you have an issue bring it so I can Love You All The More. LOL
Livingepistle--trying to keep it real in Jesus. I enjoy reading your posts you have a different view on life.