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Here is a little about my sitauation. I met this man 20 years ago we were young. We really did share some good times togther. After a year we decided to get married. Had a nice Church wedding. Two days before he explains to me his mother would be attending our honeymoon with us. I was like are you kidding me. I agreed. Just wanted to be accepted into his family and get along with his mother too. On our honeymoon i was still irriated at the fact she was there. Sharing our space along with us. I said having her with us, should have been our time. Maybe selfish on my part to feel that way. He gets angry because I felt like that. He proceeds to choke me down on the bed. I could not belive what was going on. My family had already told me not to marry this man. But to save my pride and my face , I sucked up the ordeal of that abuse and moved on with my life with him. Soon our son was born and a daughter followed. We would argue as all couples did, But he later hit me again on 4 other ocassions. He had me afraid of doing anything wrong. I was always afraid he may snap again. So I never would have a say so in anything. Was afraid of him. I recently left this relationship after 20yrs and have met a wonderful man. But I dont know where I should go from here. I know GOD does not like divorce. But my ex trys to tell me to come back to him. He is a slow learner and he knows he treated me wrong and our kids need us togther. Thing is our kids are grown the youngest being 15. Just dont know what to do. Should I give him another chance, but I am so afraid he will hit me again. or I will end up miserable after the kids are gone. The man I see now just has a calmness. Is this realtionship wrong. So Confused.