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I come here for advice and somone to talk to, I guess like everyone else who has an issue.
I have been married for 18 ys to a wonderful father and provider. As a husband In general its....
I'm starting to wonder if I have a mental problem or just a nagger not sure... but I know I judge myself so much
because I want to be in order as a wife...Lord knows I want to be in order and be what i need to be as a wife.
I support my husband in whatever he wants and love him dearly but ...I am sexaually unsatified and have been
for a while. We don't do anything together outside of eating out or hanging with family. This gets old.. there is no
excitement. Everything is so routine. Work, home, eat, sleep. He's a hard worker I'm thankful for that but he stays
tired all the time. He has some medical issues that has left him slightly impotent. When we are together he's mostly
a selfish lover. I have talked, pleaded, asked and prayed but find myself being very resentful. I threaten him with me
cheating just to get him to feel the urgency but would never do it. He know all my pleas but just says to pray for him.
I feel prayer without works is dead.... so why pray when your not going to do anything.
I'm so heartbroken.. tired of this cycle and feel so trapped... In 4 yrs our kids would be gone and off to college.. then what..where would our relationship be then....
I have been married for 18 ys to a wonderful father and provider. As a husband In general its....
I'm starting to wonder if I have a mental problem or just a nagger not sure... but I know I judge myself so much
because I want to be in order as a wife...Lord knows I want to be in order and be what i need to be as a wife.
I support my husband in whatever he wants and love him dearly but ...I am sexaually unsatified and have been
for a while. We don't do anything together outside of eating out or hanging with family. This gets old.. there is no
excitement. Everything is so routine. Work, home, eat, sleep. He's a hard worker I'm thankful for that but he stays
tired all the time. He has some medical issues that has left him slightly impotent. When we are together he's mostly
a selfish lover. I have talked, pleaded, asked and prayed but find myself being very resentful. I threaten him with me
cheating just to get him to feel the urgency but would never do it. He know all my pleas but just says to pray for him.
I feel prayer without works is dead.... so why pray when your not going to do anything.
I'm so heartbroken.. tired of this cycle and feel so trapped... In 4 yrs our kids would be gone and off to college.. then what..where would our relationship be then....