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Dyloenis

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Welcome to cc !!!
If you are having struggle as gay...we are here to help getting you away from that lifestyle. And there's no such thing as "gay christian" in cc.....there's only "former gays and became born again christians".

God bless
you can be born again and be gay. And to say to be born again christian you have to live christian ways, is true, but noone is perfect, we are sinners, not some pure being.
 
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The wise seek wisdom and correction. The fool seeks praise for ignorance. You want acceptance bit I wonder are you accepting of someone who doesnt accept your position. You dont want unity you want uniformity. You are not seeking truth you are seeking comfort. I hope you dont find that here. I would rather you find truth than comfort. The truth hurts but deception kills.
 
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Welcome to CC Eyes. I'm gonna repeat what wwjd_kilden said, just ignore them they aren't acting like true Christians, also they don't have the right to judge and condemn you, only God has that right, God bless.
Read 1 Corinthians 6:2-5 then respond again
 
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Welcome to CC, EyesOfWonder!

I am gay as well, and I know how difficult it is as a christian. I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one in here struggling with it, and looking for support. I'm here if you want to chat :)
If you are in Christ then you are not gay your identity is in Him. You may struggle with sinful flesh but your dentity is not found in it. I was delivered from homosexuality so I speak from experiece.
 
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4j

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note my dear being gay is evil and its not f GOD FOR HE MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE WHEN A MAN SLEEPS WITH AFELLOW MAN THAT IS LIVING CONTRALY TO THE WORD GOD
 

Blain

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note my dear being gay is evil and its not f GOD FOR HE MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE WHEN A MAN SLEEPS WITH AFELLOW MAN THAT IS LIVING CONTRALY TO THE WORD GOD
I totally sense the love of God in your yelling outburst of rashness, I am totally recommending to my friend.
 

joshhuntnm

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I talked to a gay pastor once. I hate to say, but I think it will be a difficult life. Whatever you do will be difficult.
 
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4j

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GOD IS NOT A MAN THAT COMPROMISESNO GAY SHALL SEE GOD READ ROMANS 1;26.27.JESUS NEVER SAID AMAN SHOUID LEAV HIS MOM AN DAD AND BE JOINED TO A FELLOW MAN .THE TWO.CAN NEVER WORKREAD YOUR BIBLE PLEASE AND STOP PICKING VERSES THAT SIUTS U
 

Blain

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GOD IS NOT A MAN THAT COMPROMISESNO GAY SHALL SEE GOD READ ROMANS 1;26.27.JESUS NEVER SAID AMAN SHOUID LEAV HIS MOM AN DAD AND BE JOINED TO A FELLOW MAN .THE TWO.CAN NEVER WORKREAD YOUR BIBLE PLEASE AND STOP PICKING VERSES THAT SIUTS U
Picking verses? I seem to recall one that said Love thy neighbor as thy self. Is that better?
 
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J-Kay

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You know what is sad ? We can love the person if he/she had not said
"I am a gay Christian." Yes we can love the person. We hate the sin because
we are Christians. How can we help him/her begin to know the truth it is a
sin to be 'gay.' Will he/she want to stay with us?

Let's put it this way, Jesus is here. He will help us minister truth.
Should he/she go to a Christian Gay Site ?

Wow, what would Jesus do?
 
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J-Kay

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If you are in Christ then you are not gay your identity is in Him. You may struggle with sinful flesh but your dentity is not found in it. I was delivered from homosexuality so I speak from experiece.
EX-Bi.... Very well said.
 

Blain

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You know what is sad ? We can love the person if he/she had not said
"I am a gay Christian." Yes we can love the person. We hate the sin because
we are Christians. How can we help him/her begin to know the truth it is a
sin to be 'gay.' Will he/she want to stay with us?

Let's put it this way, Jesus is here. He will help us minister truth.
Should he/she go to a Christian Gay Site ?

Wow, what would Jesus do?
Yes but sadly we have people who are christians who seem to hate the person for being gay not the gayness itself.
 
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F8fl1

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Why is it we have no problem with an ethical God, but when it comes to a moral God, people cry "Foul! unfair! who are you to say!?" it's not up to us, but our God and master to determine what is moral and what is immoral. We are not to condemn those who behave immorally by biblical standards (did i just self incriminate? perhaps..) but to try and help them draw close enough to God so they find healing, love and correction.
 
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paulguyer

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My first question is. Do you think God is with out rath in his love, or is it just all love. My second question is, have you read any thing in the bible about your life style. Third if you knew that God said not good, would you agre with him. And lastly just becouse some one tell you some thing you dont want to hear it dose not mean they are judgeing you. Salamo tells us that a friend that reproffs you is better then one that tickles your ear. If some one build you in the bible good but if they only seek to make you feal like crap bad. The bad part is if you are not willing to hand over your sexual desir to God they will feal like the same. Reproff is jaged pill to swallo. My advice do your resurch. Lission even if it hurts. Do some more resurch. But if you are just going with Im and thats the end of it. You can love God all you want it wont matter. Jesus said you call me lord but you dont do what I say. So last question. Its just for you I dont need an answer. Who is your God. Is the same one that led isreal out. Or is he some new age teaching that slaps christian on the lable like a bumper sticker. Can not cut what you dont like out of the bible.
 
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Batgirlxx

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If being gay was wrong why would god give you these feelings? Jesus main message was love , love is love who cares who it's between it's sad when ur own people don't believe what you are xx
 
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J-Kay

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My first question is. Do you think God is with out rath in his love, or is it just all love. My second question is, have you read any thing in the bible about your life style. Third if you knew that God said not good, would you agre with him. And lastly just becouse some one tell you some thing you dont want to hear it dose not mean they are judgeing you. Salamo tells us that a friend that reproffs you is better then one that tickles your ear. If some one build you in the bible good but if they only seek to make you feal like crap bad. The bad part is if you are not willing to hand over your sexual desir to God they will feal like the same. Reproff is jaged pill to swallo. My advice do your resurch. Lission even if it hurts. Do some more resurch. But if you are just going with Im and thats the end of it. You can love God all you want it wont matter. Jesus said you call me lord but you dont do what I say. So last question. Its just for you I dont need an answer. Who is your God. Is the same one that led isreal out. Or is he some new age teaching that slaps christian on the lable like a bumper sticker. Can not cut what you dont like out of the bible.
Paul... that was well said. You speak truth and we know it. I know it is sad because
many 'gay' are taught, God is changing His word today to fit todays lifestyle. Believe
me I know, I dealt with this on my own Group from another Christian organization.
So before we judge him, we must be certain he is not being deceived and wants to
learn truth. So keep speaking truth sir... We can pray he will find Jesus is a Savior
who died for man and woman sins. And homosexuality is that as adultery is. Blessings.
 
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J-Kay

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Yes but sadly we have people who are christians who seem to hate the person for being gay not the gayness itself.
Blain I am sure you are right. I KNOW you are right. But we can be examples, and
ask Jesus how to deal with these issues ... How He would deal with it ..and to speak
to our spirit the very thing a person has need of to hear to help them. God bless
 
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J-Kay

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If being gay was wrong why would god give you these feelings? Jesus main message was love , love is love who cares who it's between it's sad when ur own people don't believe what you are xx
Gen. 2727So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28And God blessed them, and God said to them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth. …

God created man and woman. Please read scripture. It is wise to not follow
what you want to believe... It helps to back it up with what God says. I understand
where you are coming from, and your heart tells you that. But, I am sorry to have
to tell you, it just doesn't work that way. God bless as you learn His word ~
 
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paulguyer

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If your neighbor was doing something that would distroy them self. Would you at least say some thing to him or let him do it. Better yet if you ran with a knife in your hand with the blade pointed at you and your shoes were untied. Your position is that I should not say any thing. I should realize that its your life and you have the right to do as you wish with out your fealings being hurt. I realy hope you are not a baby sitter.
 
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paulguyer

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The whole mith that Jesus is all love and no rath is a lie. When he comes back it is not going to be preity. Yes God so loved the world. And yes God made you. However sexual oreantation that is your choice. This is not intolrentce this is God word. And unless you want for every one to go thriugh gen to rev there are pasages that talk about this issue. When you stick to only God so loved. You are the one picking and choesing pasages.