Thanks for the info everyone,
i live in a small town in southamerica, so the parties I go to are in the town square, right next to the church.
The parties could be "considered" christian sinse the dancers and singers let out a few "praise the lords" and "god bless you".
And alot of the traditional bachatas they sing contain lyrics praising god. and almost every car in southamerica has some kind of crucific or cross in it. Which to me is all good.
And heres the downside: 10% of the people that go to the square and dance, will get very drunk. There is often fights and brawling in the next block. The dancers on stage are often clothed scantilly, and the DJ will play lots of reggaeton songs after the dancers are done with performing, which are noce songs, but some contain dirty lyrics and promotes people to do sensual dancing. The pastor from my church said, i shouldn't be drinking or dancing like crazy with the girls. Which i do agree to some extent,
but not to full extent like "dont put your arm around the girl" or dont do this, or that. God created man and woman for each other right? So i would say, as long as im not lusting, I can go dance freely.???