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I have three roommates who I have been living with for just over a year.
My one roommate has been seeing this certain girl for about 2 months now
her and I got along at the beginning just fine, but after a few visits something seemed a little bit off, so i asked her about it
she said she feels threatened by me because I live with her bf
i assured her that this was a highly platonic relationship for all parties involved
i apologized to her if i had done anything to make her feel like i was interested in her bf and i explicitly assured her that I am not interested in him in that way
she said 'ok' and everything was fine
about a week later my roommate comes up to me, privately, and tells me that his gf is tired of me flirting with her bf
i asked my friend 'do you think i flirt with you?' and he says 'no'
without getting into all the details about it, my roommate gets some enjoyment out of his gf getting jealous and he likes to feed into that jealousy
i told him that was stupid and that he needed to tell her the truth, but he didn't/won't
so i told her the next time she pulled me aside to have a 'talk' with me about staying away from her bf
needless to say, she didn't believe me
at this point, it is getting kind of annoying to have the same ridiculous conversation with her, which she feels needs to be rehashed almost every time she comes over and i'm home
i'm frustrated, i'm sure she isn't feeling great, and my roommate is just proving how much of a douce he really is
i really despise drama. i have to deal with it everyday at work, and really don't want to have to worry about it when i get home. any suggestions on how to deal with this gracefully?
My one roommate has been seeing this certain girl for about 2 months now
her and I got along at the beginning just fine, but after a few visits something seemed a little bit off, so i asked her about it
she said she feels threatened by me because I live with her bf
i assured her that this was a highly platonic relationship for all parties involved
i apologized to her if i had done anything to make her feel like i was interested in her bf and i explicitly assured her that I am not interested in him in that way
she said 'ok' and everything was fine
about a week later my roommate comes up to me, privately, and tells me that his gf is tired of me flirting with her bf
i asked my friend 'do you think i flirt with you?' and he says 'no'
without getting into all the details about it, my roommate gets some enjoyment out of his gf getting jealous and he likes to feed into that jealousy
i told him that was stupid and that he needed to tell her the truth, but he didn't/won't
so i told her the next time she pulled me aside to have a 'talk' with me about staying away from her bf
needless to say, she didn't believe me
at this point, it is getting kind of annoying to have the same ridiculous conversation with her, which she feels needs to be rehashed almost every time she comes over and i'm home
i'm frustrated, i'm sure she isn't feeling great, and my roommate is just proving how much of a douce he really is
i really despise drama. i have to deal with it everyday at work, and really don't want to have to worry about it when i get home. any suggestions on how to deal with this gracefully?