I realy dont get men

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Esta

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My ex boyfriend now claims that he left me because i was too good for him. He even told one of my friends that am 'the good wife' type. Since when is being good a bad thing? For the love of God am only 19. And am also a christian,so i won't pretend to be bad gal just to get a man. Whats wrong with men?
 
Fenner

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He's immature and not ready for a relationship. Tell your friend you broke up because he's the bad husband type. :)
 
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marrion

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Maybe he was planning on seeing other women while he was with you but because you are a good woman he did not want to hurt you.Looks like he is saving you a lot of heartache.Also if you are waiting to have sex after marriage he may not have been willing to wait.
 
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Esta

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Hahahaha i wish i'd thought of that before. Thank you. I don't think i have heart to tell him that though but he just doesnt care what i think or say. So i let him be.......
 
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kenthomas27

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we're idiots.
 
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Esta

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Marrion i think he failed badly on the heartache part coz it hurts to think that i'm not that girl he'd rather be faithful to.
 
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Esta

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Kenthomas i couldnt agree more.
 
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marrion

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That's a good point.sounds like he may regret this decision later on.There must be a ton of christian men looking for a woman that is Godly and faithful and your ex had you and walked away.Then again you never want to be unequally yoked with someone either.
 
maxwel

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Who knows.

But of this one thing you can be sure:
if you were doing your best to be a nice girl, and he broke up with you because of that...
you're clearly better off now.
 
Fenner

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Esta said:
Hahahaha i wish i'd thought of that before. Thank you. I don't think i have heart to tell him that though but he just doesnt care what i think or say. So i let him be.......
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Good idea, some guys like to chase a girl to and once they have her, then they get bored. Some women are like that too. Don't dwell on him, God has other plans for you. :)
 
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GreenNnice

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maxman says it well, God is preparing you for someone and it's just not that guy. Keep following Him. The Lord leads. Be thankful, glad, joyous even, to Him, understanding 1 Thessalonians 5 , which is before you soon. And, just learn from this, that God is going to be working on you in various ways all your life and IF you genuinely seek Him and pray to Him and take answers like all these given you to 'heart,' you will BEAT whatever it is out there that is trying to steal your thankfulness of life, your gladness, your joy, and, the goodness of ALL God is trying to give you in life, through FAITH, which, ,like Abraham, WILL come along the way with some pretty tough choices that require COMPLETE obedience for His blessings on Earth to become fruit to your life. His Spirit is leading you well, showing you what you don't want, or, rather 'who,' in your life . Want more than anything else and ANYONE else, Him, all will work out. Now, get to 'work.' Labor in Him , it will only be a 'labor of Love,' for God loves you, milady, and ,will find you the desires of your heart when you delight yourself in His Spirit leading you, in Him :)

Rejoice always, 17pray continually, 18give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 19Do not quench the Spirit. 20Do not treat prophecies with contempt 21but test them all; hold on to what is good, 22reject every kind of evil.
23May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 24The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.
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MissCris

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Esta said:
My ex boyfriend now claims that he left me because i was too good for him. He even told one of my friends that am 'the good wife' type. Since when is being good a bad thing? For the love of God am only 19. And am also a christian,so i won't pretend to be bad gal just to get a man. Whats wrong with men?
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He's either:
A) Lying, because he doesn't want to just say he doesn't want to be with you, and he thinks it will make you feel better somehow to say that you're too good for him, or...
B) He feels guilty about something he's been doing and honestly doesn't feel like he's good enough for you.

Either way, it's ridiculous, and he should go grow up before getting into any other relationships. Men don't behave that way- boys do.
 
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xXErraticEmilyXx

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He's probably just trying to break it off.
Don't think about it too hard.
 
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drew23

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be patient god has someone special for you
 
Searching4Truth

Searching4Truth

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We (men and women) speak the same language, just with different dialects.
 
Liamson

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He told her something (could be truth, might not be) and then broke up with her.

Its a valid reason.


How would you rather he break up with you?
 
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Esta said:
My ex boyfriend now claims that he left me because i was too good for him. He even told one of my friends that am 'the good wife' type. Since when is being good a bad thing? For the love of God am only 19. And am also a christian,so i won't pretend to be bad gal just to get a man. Whats wrong with men?
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You ask this like women are any different. This isn't a gender issue. The stories i could tell you about women i've dated... but yet i don't go around saying 'whats wrong with women...?'. Why? Because its not men or women that do these things. Its humans, regardless of gender. Don't blame men for something both genders do.
 
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Tintin

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Thank God for Ugly and his words of wisdom! :)
 
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Esta

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Thank you guys.
 
vanillakay

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I don't think any women get men...lol I don't thats for sure. Your ex was making an excuse or mybe he wasnt ready for a relationship. Hang in there!
 
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