. I, personally, think it' silly to pray to a dead person. If they are dead and in heaven next to the awesomeness of GOD, I'm quite sure their attention is focused on Their LORD AND GOD and all of His loving might.
are gees man, who told you they prayed directly to the dead, ? (again is this individual belief ?.
Ok lets say you and person you get into an argument , you have not been friends with that person for some time,
for many reason you hate each other, one of you want to deliberately hit the other person (not a moment of madness but a planned moment that has built up inside of you (hate) , now the next thing is that happens you hit him he dies (murder).
now that person is in a place of Purgatory waiting for The day when Jesus may or may not set him free,
before he died he did many sins against you he did not ask for forgiveness, or repent, now if you had not of struck him maybe he might of asked for forgiveness , who knows, you would never know
(this is why people see suicide as unforgivable because they have murdered them selves and not ask for forgiveness.)
now you know that saints collect prayers what if they hear the prayer of you saying lord it was just as much my fault as it was his.
we both quarreled we both argued and fighted,
lets say he stole from you, with the same desire you wanted to hit him (planned) so whats so bad praying that god hears your prayer that it was all not his fault lord please forgive him. ?
that is prayer for that dead, or please lord i forgive him can you ask him if he forgives me on the day of judgement,
(remember Moses was a murderer too.) but he had time to change. there a few others too. (Moses is in heaven inst he
ok next point it could be young adult dies young didn't know the lord did drugs cheated you name it,
his mother becomes a christian afterwards, she feels convicted for not having taught her son Christianity , she might offer prayer for the saints, saying lord please forgive my son he did not know you and i did not teach him,
these are prayers for the saints theese are prayers for the dead,
now if you live a ripe old age of 80 its a pretty safe bet your going to learn about the bible forgiveness etc, but if you do not have forgiveness afterwards then its a pretty safe bet you will turn into a wicked old man or wicked old lady,
that's not directed at you but others who may read this.
I have read your posts and i see something good there.
but just want to clear your statement so that people do not seethat Catholics pray directly to the dead , but in ways i have mentioned hear. they pray for the dead and pray so the saints may here them to.