Do you consider "oral sex" sex?

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Richie_2uk

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Oh dear, Well you cant say you have not been warned. Drop this, now, you not getting the answers you want to hear, and calling people names is not exactly adult like never mind Christian like. I can see this thread being closed or deleted. Lets drop this, it clearly not going anywhere.
 
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Oh dear, Well you cant say you have not been warned. Drop this, now, you not getting the answers you want to hear, and calling people names is not exactly adult like never mind Christian like. I can see this thread being closed or deleted. Lets drop this, it clearly not going anywhere.
the name calling, slander, judging, anger toward and at me started on the 1st page.. all the way through the 6th.... not sure what you are talking about.
 
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the name calling, slander, judging, anger toward and at me started on the 1st page.. all the way through the 6th.... not sure what you are talking about.
The key words are σάρξ (flesh) and θάνατος (death).

Rom 7:5 For when we were in the flesh, the motions of sins, which were by the law, did work in our members to bring forth fruit unto death.
 

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the name calling, slander, judging, anger toward and at me started on the 1st page.. all the way through the 6th.... not sure what you are talking about.
If you are trying to infer that I was the one... :rolleyes: The you are sadly mistaken... I am sorry I gave you biblical examples and opposed your point of view Mien Fuhrer
 

Oncefallen

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I think this is the most reported thread in recent CC history. We have chosen to allow the discussion up to this point since it is a no win situation for us. If we remove it we will be accused of being prudes, if we leave it up we will be accused of aiding and abetting unwholesome communication. I will say this....I just read more mudslinging and unwarranted accusations than I have in a while. If the discussion can't be kept discreet and civil this thread will be closed and the offenders will be acted against.
 
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HeIsNowHere

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so you are saying it is "sexual", and not sex... i agree.
So if Jesus was standing right in front of you and you were having oral sex with someone what do you think he would think?
How would you feel with him standing there? How about the other person's mother? Why do people try to justify the lust of the flesh this way? Remember everything you do in secret will be exposed in the open some day.
 
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So.. were on page 8.


And scattered throughout this I see some Christians saying foreplay isn't sexual sin?


Foreplay involves LUST. If it didn't it wouldn't be called foreplay. Keep your hands and eyes off, it's not difficult. I'm not condeming kissing here, but seriously discussions about petting, foreplay?

Petting - only two people are ever touching that area on me. Me (because I'm a human being and have to go to the bathroom occasionally) and my future wife. Maybe a doctor if need be.

Kissing - where are you kissing exactly? How about keeping it constrained to the face? There should be enough surface area there that it will still be enjoyable. Start going lower and I'm pretty sure you're going to start lusting, and there might be clothes removed.

Just. Keep. Your. Pants. On.
 
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So.. were on page 8.


And scattered throughout this I see some Christians saying foreplay isn't sexual sin?


Foreplay involves LUST. If it didn't it wouldn't be called foreplay. Keep your hands and eyes off, it's not difficult. I'm not condeming kissing here, but seriously discussions about petting, foreplay?

Petting - only two people are ever touching that area on me. Me (because I'm a human being and have to go to the bathroom occasionally) and my future wife. Maybe a doctor if need be.

Kissing - where are you kissing exactly? How about keeping it constrained to the face? There should be enough surface area there that it will still be enjoyable. Start going lower and I'm pretty sure you're going to start lusting, and there might be clothes removed.

Just. Keep. Your. Pants. On.
show me where. if you cant, then i want an apology.
 
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So if Jesus was standing right in front of you and you were having oral sex with someone what do you think he would think?
How would you feel with him standing there? How about the other person's mother? Why do people try to justify the lust of the flesh this way? Remember everything you do in secret will be exposed in the open some day.
read everything i said before talking to me.

otherwise, dont talk to me because you clearly dont know what im even talking about.
 
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If you are trying to infer that I was the one... :rolleyes: The you are sadly mistaken... I am sorry I gave you biblical examples and opposed your point of view Mien Fuhrer
your examples were off base.
 
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so i ask a more casual board this same question... and the responses were MUCH more friendly than these so called righteous christians..

and nobody thinks its "sex".. well 2 people say it is. but even they were much more respectful and casual about their answers... thats what i was looking for. these responses from christians were very disappointing.
 

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you're asking if orange is a color or not, and crying foul when someone points out that it is in fact a color, because you want to cling to a definition of color as being strictly confined to {red, yellow, blue}.

all you are doing is pushing words around. you ignored my earlier comment referencing our former president Monsieur Clinton, who brought this topic to the forefront of public discussion some years back. I think it's incredibly relevant since the intent of this topic doesn't seem to be to entertain other peoples opinions or what the moral and/or biblical stance would be.

how does Hilary Clinton feel about the subject? do you think she cares about finer distinctions of vocabulary?

is there seriously any good reason this topic has grown to 8 pages, or are some of the ppl in this thread just creating & perpetuating divisions and enmity? if i was a mod, this would be locked. i guess there are good reasons that i am not a mod, lol.
 

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so i ask a more casual board this same question... and the responses were MUCH more friendly than these so called righteous christians..

and nobody thinks its "sex".. well 2 people say it is. but even they were much more respectful and casual about their answers... thats what i was looking for. these responses from christians were very disappointing.


Well, when you ask secular or overly liberal Christian boards, you're going to get secular or liberal answers. Which I think was your point in asking them. You're either a troll, or you want someone to tell you any form of sex outside of marriage is okay. Either way, you have your answers.



This thread should be deleted.
 
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Well, when you ask secular or overly liberal Christian boards, you're going to get secular or liberal answers. Which I think was your point in asking them. You're either a troll, or you want someone to tell you any form of sex outside of marriage is okay. Either way, you have your answers.



This thread should be deleted.
where did i say this? or is this some more assumptions... the christians here are giving christians a bad wrap!
 
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mods close this thread. NOBODY is reading ANYTHING i said.. no point in repeating myself to everybody that feels the need to jump the gun and doing and saying all this extra stuff.
 

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where did i say this? or is this some more assumptions... the christians here are giving christians a bad wrap!


You are probably lying about your motives, or you're so deep in denial about them you keep saying it's not what you're looking for.


Ehh, whatevs.
 

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mods close this thread. NOBODY is reading ANYTHING i said.. no point in repeating myself to everybody that feels the need to jump the gun and doing and saying all this extra stuff.


As Oncefallen as already said, it's a no win situation. And you can't make or boss a mod on this site around. The fact they can't be forced to do anything is rather nice and refreshing. Don't ya think?
 
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As Oncefallen as already said, it's a no win situation. And you can't make or boss a mod on this site around. The fact they can't be forced to do anything is rather nice and refreshing. Don't ya think?
yea, i said the same thing you did, but you are lashing at me for it.. very hypocritical, dont ya think?
 
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