not easy to find ur soulmate

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how many people think, like i think,,,haahhaa :)

anybody wants to have their own happy family right?
have u ever feel desperate..looking for ur soul mate ?
 
Tell me about it girl!!!
But I am at least 10 years older than you and I STILL havent found 'the one.'
The most important thing you can do at your age is - STOP WORRYING!
Make the most of now and instead of wishing, hoping and yearning for what you dont have try asking God - what do you want me to do for you Lord? You are in a place in your life where you can be easily used by Jesus to achieve amazing things!! As you submit everything to him, he will direct and guide you. The Lord has great plans for your life!!
 
Hi
my personal opinion, we shouldnt look for it, we should pray about it so God will show us the directions.
if you desperate You can easy stuck in a relationship that is going to nowhere...with a person who isnt a christian or trying to convince You that You wrong what You believe or trying to convince You that maybe after some time he or she will know more about Christ but its just to keep you think he or she will change but its not like happening
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For everything its the right time

Mathiew 6:33
,,But seek (aim at and strive after) first of all His kingdom and His righteousness (His way of doing and being right), and then all these things taken together will be given you besides."

So if we close in a relationship with Jesus, if we trust him and have faith in Him- are things are possible, but its the righ time for it.....its not that we choosing that time when we want to , no He will show us the right time for the right person...

Of course its not easy when we are still single, example like me..ad we think well God when is the time for my soulmate I cannot wait...
patient and again patient...by faith all will happen,

I know by my own experience that its not good to search becouse many times on my own way came guy who was interested and I though oh maybe this one...but when I look closer He was just interested in nice looking girls, he didnt care about Jesus...another one was pretanding to believe just to date me....

I am saying watch out its really dangerous...devil likes to play that kind of games with us a lot...

EASY is to find not right person by ourselfs but PRECIOUS wait for the right one from God and give all in His hands.

Question who do You wanna trust about soulmate- God or Yourself?


God BLess You

Believe25
 
Believe25 said:
Mathiew 6:33
,,But seek (aim at and strive after) first of all His kingdom and His righteousness (His way of doing and being right), and then all these things taken together will be given you besides."
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Absolutely!

I know by my own experience that its not good to search becouse many times on my own way came guy who was interested and I though oh maybe this one...but when I look closer He was just interested in nice looking girls, he didnt care about Jesus...another one was pretanding to believe just to date me....
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So you'd rather go out with a bloke who doesn't think you're nice looking??? :p

Question who do You wanna trust about soulmate- God or Yourself?
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If we've already trusted God with our eternal life, then it would be rather silly for us to not trust in Him in everything else. Wouldn't it?



Yeah, single life might get lonely sometimes, but I don't think we'll ever get any other opportunity at this freedom ever again. God has blessed us now with this single life and we should thank Him for it and continue to do His will.
 
I agree Sillex.


So you'd rather go out with a bloke who doesn't think you're nice looking??? :p

I would rather go with Christian who love God:-)
 
wow..u all give the other strength..included me..

keep believing in Jesus promise..keep hoping,asking,and didn't use ur own power..then we will see..
He open our way and do His promises amazingly..
 
Believe25 said:
I would rather go with Christian who love God:-)
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That's it? No other requirement? No preference on age, financial status, sense of humour (or lack of it), build, height, width, volume, skills, talents, intelligence etc????
 
Jesus loves us so much, and You dont care how high He is, what is His age, colour of eyes :-P becouse You focus on what He did for us...You focus on love...

so love is the most important:-) Love to God, if man is a christian and love God its a lot, second things are those look things.
Of course I dont want to have a husband who has 60 years:-P so we should pray about specific things, its good to do it.

God Bless You
 
Believe25 said:
so we should pray about specific things, its good to do it.
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But by doing so, wouldn't one be limiting oneself from the endless possibilities of what God might have in store? Doesn't this sound like, "God I'm absolutely open for anyone you bless me with as long as he meets the following criteria I am about to mention...."?

tsk tsk tsk....putting limiting the blessings.....sad :p
 
Silex said:
But by doing so, wouldn't one be limiting oneself from the endless possibilities of what God might have in store? Doesn't this sound like, "God I'm absolutely open for anyone you bless me with as long as he meets the following criteria I am about to mention...."?

tsk tsk tsk....putting limiting the blessings.....sad :p
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We need to hear what Holly Spirit tells us, He i showing directions.
We not limiting Him, God hears our prayers.God knows our hearts and He knows what we need:-)
 
I've figured that a soul mate is one of those people that you click with, have a fun time with, but then have a tough break up with.
 
I ask God not to give me the one I love or the one I think is my soulmate, but to love and commit myself to the one He gives me. The reason why I pray like this is that from my experience I know that I don't know myself, I don't know what I like. I often had serious relationships before, I used to think that I've found the right partner, the best, my soulmate, ect. But time proved that I was wrong and the relationship came to an end. Recently I watched the movie "Love comes softly". It has deep truths about relationships, truths about what soulmates are all about or stuff like that. With God, whoever God gave me as my life-partner, I believe she can become my soulmate...
 
I believe in soul mates. Kinda. Well there is only one person for each of us ultimately. To find that person, only patience is required, God will take care of the rest.

Easy to say that, not easy to have this patience. But without it what makes you any different than the rest of the impatient modern society for whom divorce is the norm.
 
u know..i think i've tried hard to find the one..but u're all right friends..
only God know when,where, and how we will meet ur soul mate..

when you and i decided to gave our life to God, it means..all of it..include our future..
Bless u all... :)
 
Soulmate........... over rated i think, more than likely your gonna ohhh i love him hes so great this that and the other..... in the end.. its probably gonna be a big dissapointment.
 
Taelin and Believe25, women as beautiful as you dont need to worry about meeting men. im sure plenty of them are coming to you.
 
Soultmate? I'd be happy to meet someone wanthing to be more than a friend without trying to.... you now... Three years ago I hadn't had one look from a guy, then in two years I had one flirting with me (that I started a relationsship with but backed out because he scared me :( ) and three other guys that I met to ebfriends and ended up with them touching me... - I pity the next guy who tries that....

in my eperience, men are either good freinds or perverts :p
 
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