Being married is a huge commitment to being one. Just all the baggage gets in the way of things. people will hold on to there baggage, and sadly there is no compromise. if no compromise, no commitment to being one. So marriage will be a failure. But that's were Jesus come is, If Jesus is the center of your marriage. I think Marriage will be a little more easier.
Of course there are those, ( like myself, are happy to be Alone and Single ) this I choose to be, Not because I don't want to compromise, not because I don't want the hassle of carrying the baggage of the person. and not that I have anything against females, and Not that I am Gay, Because I'm not. But I choose to be alone, as I love it being single, love it being without a wife, I love it on my own.
Many people see this a problem, I don't. But What I see from the outside of my friends, and people's marriages, is that many, don't have Jesus in the center of there lives. or there marriages. This is not a judgement, just an observation from an outsider or marriage.