question for the the girl"s

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love a missionary that traveled around the world

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wanderer6059

wanderer6059

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so my goal in life is to be a missionary go where ever the lord needs me Detroit to Dubai and i'm happy with what i'm doing right now i am going across the US spreading love and his word and i'm thinking about going to Brazil to stay at a friend of my moms doing the same next year but sometimes i stop and think even if i did find a girl i liked would she like me i mean i won't have what other guys can give them and even if they did how could it work out
 
This is an obvious answer that doesn't require a woman. 'It depends on the girl'. This is pretty much always the case when asking questions of a group be it age, race, gender, etc... because no one can speak for every person in their group. Roughly 3 billion women on the planet, and the 20 or so women on here that might respond don't speak for the rest of them.
Also, this is what Paul meant when he discouraged marriage. People don't have the time or resources in marriage, to give to God, that they do single. So he urges to stay single. Its possible you may find someone willing to do all this with you, but it will make things more difficult in many ways.
Perhaps decide which is the bigger priority for you.
 
I know that there is a missionary family that our church helps support sometimes..along with other people as you know God is the provider anyway and it isn't our money :) also there is a single lady from our church being a missionary/teacher in Burma, and she would love to be married one day..
It's wonderful to share a mission together and dreams together and sharpen one another for the kingdom..Eccl 4:9-12
9 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: 10 If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! 11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? 12 Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken

Of course many of us have a church we attend where we can be this for others as well as them for us, but II think that if you are out in the mission field .. it's even more wonderful to have someone with you..
A whole family I am not sure..though these children are learning to be missionaries themselves..and providing for them is God's job and well..with Him nothing is impossible..
but the thing is if you cannot see the rest of your life not having a wife (being celibate and a eunich) then you should marry.
Paul isn't saying it's a sin..but he is just giving a warning that it's a bit harder..
though who ever marries for easyness ?:) if you do..that's just uninformed. lol
Even Jeremiah, called as a prophet of God told God that he was quitting unless God send him someone to help him..
this was not a romantic relationship of course but the point is there is nothing wrong with wanting or needing to have
someone in your life to turn to , talk to and/or help..
Just as always give God your desires and let Him turn them into reality if He so desires..
:)
blessings


 
Find a like minded woman wanderer and it shouldn't be hard at all. There are many young woman who are missionaries.
 
it's been hard connecting with anyone tho like right now i'm going to be moving around allot shoot i might just try and make a single Christian missionary dating site lol
 
wanderer6059 said:
so my goal in life is to be a missionary go where ever the lord needs me Detroit to Dubai and i'm happy with what i'm doing right now i am going across the US spreading love and his word and i'm thinking about going to Brazil to stay at a friend of my moms doing the same next year but sometimes i stop and think even if i did find a girl i liked would she like me i mean i won't have what other guys can give them and even if they did how could it work out
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You sound like you have a good heart, but you need to be more organized. Even Paul had sending and supporting churches. (I apologize if you do, too. I just didn't get that impression.) Most missionaries have support--several mission organizations even have insurance and retirement plans. With all of these in place, I don't see why a like-minded woman would not be interested in serving beside you.
 
^amen to that my organization is crazy the bike ride across country were on left Lansing with $100 and a tank of gas in our support vehicle but the Lords provided the rest and Brazil is a friend of my moms who does missions out there and i don't know if i want to stay in Brazil and work there because i got the offer to open a youth center in new mexico soo ya i'm not organized lol i never really have been :/
 
It's definitely possible. Many women have a heart for missions. Don't let that be your focus, though, while in the mission field; let God be (since that IS the heart of missions, right? :) )
 
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