Do I Attract Girls That Aren't For Me? Haha I Don't Attract Anyone LOL

[Art05]

Attract? Pffff. Don't make me laugh.

There aren't any Christian girls my age here, where I live and attend church! Weird, I know. Sounds like I'm exaggerating, I know. But I'm not. I'm really, really not.

lol Well, I actually never meet ladies my own age. Now that I think about it, I don't. That's ... even weirder.

Just so you know, I don't have any friends. Most of the people I converse with (usually at church) are 40-50-to 80 year old men. Yeah. And the ladies that are ... ahem, older and married.

But, if I have met them, I don't attract anyone, saved or not saved. Oh well.

It's because I'm not Ryan Gosling's twin lol. It's because I'm not built; it's because my face isn't ... very attractive; it's because I don't have a nice butt. All of those. Plus, I can't afford nice clothes because I'm also very poor; plus, I tend to blush easily; plus, I'm really not familiar with communicating with women.

I'm also kind of boring. But, what can you do? I read the Bible too much, and they don't want to talk about the Bible (it's not like we're in church, or something!) Can't talk about video games (girls don't like 'em), or books (those boring things), or even anime or manga (if there are girls that like that, then I've never seen them lol). And if I do bring them up, they're about a 30-second (or less) interest, and then I'm blank.

God's will? This, this is God's will for my life?

 

[Grace-Like-Rain]

Hey. Girls love video games. And your butt is perfectly fine. Stop looking at it. That just makes it worse.

 

[Lonie]

I'm a girl and I love video games....what she said --^

 

[Ugly]

Attract? Pffff. Don't make me laugh.

There aren't any Christian girls my age here, where I live and attend church! Weird, I know. Sounds like I'm exaggerating, I know. But I'm not. I'm really, really not.

lol Well, I actually never meet ladies my own age. Now that I think about it, I don't. That's ... even weirder.

Just so you know, I don't have any friends. Most of the people I converse with (usually at church) are 40-50-to 80 year old men. Yeah. And the ladies that are ... ahem, older and married.

But, if I have met them, I don't attract anyone, saved or not saved. Oh well.

It's because I'm not Ryan Gosling's twin lol. It's because I'm not built; it's because my face isn't ... very attractive; it's because I don't have a nice butt. All of those. Plus, I can't afford nice clothes because I'm also very poor; plus, I tend to blush easily; plus, I'm really not familiar with communicating with women.

I'm also kind of boring. But, what can you do? I read the Bible too much, and they don't want to talk about the Bible (it's not like we're in church, or something!) Can't talk about video games (girls don't like 'em), or books (those boring things), or even anime or manga (if there are girls that like that, then I've never seen them lol). And if I do bring them up, they're about a 30-second (or less) interest, and then I'm blank.

God's will? This, this is God's will for my life?

Dude. If you saw me, and then saw some of the women i've dated, you'd know the stuff you say about why girls aren't attracted to you is a load of crap.
I'm not much to look at, have no nice clothes or much money. I'm shy, (no really i am), i'm an introvert, i suffer from chronic depression, i have social issues, anxiety issues, health issues. Yet i've managed to date girls that range from simple and cute to amateur models.
By the way, most anime/manga people i have ever known have been girls. Also more women i've known tend to be readers. Video games among females is more popular now than ever.

Chances are the issues are none of that. Its likely how you present yourself to a woman before you ever talk to her, that turns her off. Your attitude about yourself reflects in your body language. If your attitude is 'no woman wants me' then when you approach a woman, she's going to pick up on this mindset and it will turn her away. If you want women to notice you try changing how you think, and in turn that will change your body language.
I've known women that do the same thing. Good women that a guy would be lucky to have, but no one will notice them because their attitude is bad, and it causes their body language to push people away. And this isn't about clothes, or looks, its about making friends and being someone that a person can learn to like as they get to know you.

 

[Aqua_Girl09]

sounds like you need to go to an anime convention. >_< lol. all my "nerdy" friends who say they can't get a girl. . . . .they always leave there with at least 3 numbers. and usually they just stay friends over Facebook or something but thats cause they're too shy to push and say "lets hang out"

But i promise. anime convention is like a nerds paradise. >_< (can't wait to go to the next one)
OH! and dress up!

 

[AAAPlus]

Attract? Pffff. Don't make me laugh.

There aren't any Christian girls my age here, where I live and attend church! Weird, I know. Sounds like I'm exaggerating, I know. But I'm not. I'm really, really not.

lol Well, I actually never meet ladies my own age. Now that I think about it, I don't. That's ... even weirder.

Just so you know, I don't have any friends. Most of the people I converse with (usually at church) are 40-50-to 80 year old men. Yeah. And the ladies that are ... ahem, older and married.

But, if I have met them, I don't attract anyone, saved or not saved. Oh well.

It's because I'm not Ryan Gosling's twin lol. It's because I'm not built; it's because my face isn't ... very attractive; it's because I don't have a nice butt. All of those. Plus, I can't afford nice clothes because I'm also very poor; plus, I tend to blush easily; plus, I'm really not familiar with communicating with women.

I'm also kind of boring. But, what can you do? I read the Bible too much, and they don't want to talk about the Bible (it's not like we're in church, or something!) Can't talk about video games (girls don't like 'em), or books (those boring things), or even anime or manga (if there are girls that like that, then I've never seen them lol). And if I do bring them up, they're about a 30-second (or less) interest, and then I'm blank.

God's will? This, this is God's will for my life?

Hey Art05,

You brought up some interesting stuff. Why did you go off about how you're not good looking? If there are seriously no Christian girls your age there, then that's your problem. What you're doing is like going fishing in a lake with no fish and then calling yourself a terrible fisherman. If the lake has no fish, then it doesn't matter how good a fisherman you are! You get what I'm trying to say?

In any case, being good looking is not really a requirement for us men. I know you may think it is because it's important to you, but it's not as important to women. I know, strange right? But that's just how God made us. Dressing well, and looking well-groomed, is much more important than looking good. And it can be done on a tight budget.

From what you described, you don't sound boring to me. I used to talk about the Bible all the time and girls loved it. It shows them you're a strong man of God, but more importantly, it shows that you're passionate about something. Keep talking about the Bible; a really special Bible-loving girl will find that REALLY attractive! As far as video games and anime go, most girls don't like that kind of stuff, but that's really a non-issue. Most girls don't like watching football, weight lifting, or working on cars either, but I'm sure you know that guys that do like those things don't get turned down by many girls because of their hobbies. Guys and girls, for the most part, enjoy doing different things. Trying to find a girl who enjoys video games is missing the point; you're looking for a life partner and co-parent, not a video game partner. Make bro-friends for that.

And don't ignore that last sentence. Make bro-friends! It's really, REALLY important for a man to have friends who are other men. There are a plethora of reasons for this, but suffice it to say, if you really don't have any friends, make friends FIRST, then look for a lady.

 

[Art05]

I shouldn't of put "manga or anime", as many of you have focused on that. And that goes to show me that you really had nothing good to anything else which I put up. Well, well, well ....I put manga or anime to show what little interest (or, rather, nothing) they show to what I'm barely interested in. In other words, I like nothing they like. And every relationship starts off on same interests. Personal experience. This is stuff I've already head before, and I'll try my best to respond to each of you. Unhelpful and worthless— unhelpful and worthless. Words written with shallowness. This is my view of it all.

 

[djness]

I shouldn't of put "manga or anime", as many of you have focused on that. And that goes to show me that you really had nothing good to anything else which I put up. Well, well, well ....I put manga or anime to show what little interest (or, rather, nothing) they show to what I'm barely interested in. In other words, I like nothing they like. And every relationship starts off on same interests. Personal experience. This is stuff I've already head before, and I'll try my best to respond to each of you. Unhelpful and worthless— unhelpful and worthless. Words written with shallowness. This is my view of it all.

Please spare every woman and stay single.

 

[Ugly]

I shouldn't of put "manga or anime", as many of you have focused on that. And that goes to show me that you really had nothing good to anything else which I put up. Well, well, well ....I put manga or anime to show what little interest (or, rather, nothing) they show to what I'm barely interested in. In other words, I like nothing they like. And every relationship starts off on same interests. Personal experience. This is stuff I've already head before, and I'll try my best to respond to each of you. Unhelpful and worthless— unhelpful and worthless. Words written with shallowness. This is my view of it all.

Well, i think we've figured out the problem. Your attitude sucks and you piss all over people who try to help you. You shoot down everything people tried to say to build you up, you only found things to point out flaws and complain and then said our help was worthless and shallow. No wonder no woman wants you. If you treat them as poorly as you treated us i don't blame them. I'm sorry i wasted any effort trying to help and i promise you i will not make that mistake again.

 

[350Zenthusiast]

I shouldn't of put "manga or anime", as many of you have focused on that. And that goes to show me that you really had nothing good to anything else which I put up. Well, well, well ....I put manga or anime to show what little interest (or, rather, nothing) they show to what I'm barely interested in. In other words, I like nothing they like. And every relationship starts off on same interests. Personal experience. This is stuff I've already head before, and I'll try my best to respond to each of you. Unhelpful and worthless— unhelpful and worthless. Words written with shallowness. This is my view of it all.

Bad attitude towards other people paired with self pity will make anyone look unattractive.

 

[MidniteWelder]

God's will? This, this is God's will for my life?

2and he began to teach them.

He said:

3“Blessed are the poor in spirit,for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4Blessed are those who mourn,for they will be comforted.
5Blessed are the meek,for they will inherit the earth.
6Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,for they will be filled.
7Blessed are the merciful,for they will be shown mercy.
8Blessed are the pure in heart,for they will see God.
9Blessed are the peacemakers,for they will be called children of God.
10Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Our reward is in heaven... remember to try not to seek it here

 

[UndRenovation]

Attract? Pffff. Don't make me laugh.

There aren't any Christian girls my age here, where I live and attend church! Weird, I know. Sounds like I'm exaggerating, I know. But I'm not. I'm really, really not.

lol Well, I actually never meet ladies my own age. Now that I think about it, I don't. That's ... even weirder.

Just so you know, I don't have any friends. Most of the people I converse with (usually at church) are 40-50-to 80 year old men. Yeah. And the ladies that are ... ahem, older and married.

But, if I have met them, I don't attract anyone, saved or not saved. Oh well.

It's because I'm not Ryan Gosling's twin lol. It's because I'm not built; it's because my face isn't ... very attractive; it's because I don't have a nice butt. All of those. Plus, I can't afford nice clothes because I'm also very poor; plus, I tend to blush easily; plus, I'm really not familiar with communicating with women.

I'm also kind of boring. But, what can you do? I read the Bible too much, and they don't want to talk about the Bible (it's not like we're in church, or something!) Can't talk about video games (girls don't like 'em), or books (those boring things), or even anime or manga (if there are girls that like that, then I've never seen them lol). And if I do bring them up, they're about a 30-second (or less) interest, and then I'm blank.

God's will? This, this is God's will for my life?

From what I am reading there dude, it reads more all about your will and what you want, I am not sorry if that's a bit strong but there is so many my and I's in your post and the fact that you left "Gods will?" right to the very end says a lot.

Attraction from worldly eyes is very different from Gods or a kingdom perspective. (Well that's what I have learnt in my time being a believer) I know its going to sound all cliché and all but all in Gods time yeah. Things in Gods kingdom are often upside down and don't make sense but for those that have been saved, they can be sure of one thing-THE TRINITY HAS IT ALL UNDER CONTROL.

Ryan Gosling will soon be a thing of the past so thank God now that your not his twin;-)

 

[Art05]

Hey. Girls love video games. And your butt is perfectly fine. Stop looking at it. That just makes it worse.

Hey. I know. But, from MY EXPERIENCE (my life's experiences with people) girls are bored with video games except "Candy Crush" or the like. I'm talking about different games lol.

How do you know my butt? "That just makes it worse"? LOL In that case my butt isn't fine, is it?

haha Okay I've gone on long enough.

 

[Art05]

I'm a girl and I love video games....what she said --^

... Wow I'm so happy for you .... [facepalm]

 

[Art05]

Dude. If you saw me, and then saw some of the women i've dated, you'd know the stuff you say about why girls aren't attracted to you is a load of crap.
I'm not much to look at, have no nice clothes or much money. I'm shy, (no really i am), i'm an introvert, i suffer from chronic depression, i have social issues, anxiety issues, health issues. Yet i've managed to date girls that range from simple and cute to amateur models.
By the way, most anime/manga people i have ever known have been girls. Also more women i've known tend to be readers. Video games among females is more popular now than ever.

Chances are the issues are none of that. Its likely how you present yourself to a woman before you ever talk to her, that turns her off. Your attitude about yourself reflects in your body language. If your attitude is 'no woman wants me' then when you approach a woman, she's going to pick up on this mindset and it will turn her away. If you want women to notice you try changing how you think, and in turn that will change your body language.
I've known women that do the same thing. Good women that a guy would be lucky to have, but no one will notice them because their attitude is bad, and it causes their body language to push people away. And this isn't about clothes, or looks, its about making friends and being someone that a person can learn to like as they get to know you.

You said: "I'm not much to look at, have no nice clothes or much money. I'm shy, (no really i am), i'm an introvert, i suffer from chronic depression, i have social issues, anxiety issues, health issues", then you say, "Yet i've managed to date girls that range from simple and cute to amateur models" ... Well, let's just say, one of you is lying haha.

"By the way, most anime/manga people i have ever known have been girls. Also more women i've known tend to be readers. Video games among females is more popular now than ever." Remember what I wrote: Here, where I live. In other words, it seems that people where you're from are completely different from my place in the world. You couldn't infer that? You see, my friend, you're not helping me (and I wonder if you were actually trying to), what you're doing is 'rubbing it in'. Clearly you have people in your environment that like these things, but I haven't. Please, I could really do without how cool your life is.

"Chances are the issues are none of that." Well, this

 

[Art05]

Dude. If you saw me, and then saw some of the women i've dated, you'd know the stuff you say about why girls aren't attracted to you is a load of crap.
I'm not much to look at, have no nice clothes or much money. I'm shy, (no really i am), i'm an introvert, i suffer from chronic depression, i have social issues, anxiety issues, health issues. Yet i've managed to date girls that range from simple and cute to amateur models.
By the way, most anime/manga people i have ever known have been girls. Also more women i've known tend to be readers. Video games among females is more popular now than ever.

Chances are the issues are none of that. Its likely how you present yourself to a woman before you ever talk to her, that turns her off. Your attitude about yourself reflects in your body language. If your attitude is 'no woman wants me' then when you approach a woman, she's going to pick up on this mindset and it will turn her away. If you want women to notice you try changing how you think, and in turn that will change your body language.
I've known women that do the same thing. Good women that a guy would be lucky to have, but no one will notice them because their attitude is bad, and it causes their body language to push people away. And this isn't about clothes, or looks, its about making friends and being someone that a person can learn to like as they get to know you.

You said: "I'm not much to look at, have no nice clothes or much money. I'm shy, (no really i am), i'm an introvert, i suffer from chronic depression, i have social issues, anxiety issues, health issues", then you say, "Yet i've managed to date girls that range from simple and cute to amateur models" ... Well, let's just say, one of you is lying haha.

"By the way, most anime/manga people i have ever known have been girls. Also more women i've known tend to be readers. Video games among females is more popular now than ever." Remember what I wrote: Here, where I live. In other words, it seems that people where you're from are completely different from my place in the world. You couldn't infer that? You see, my friend, you're not helping me (and I wonder if you were actually trying to), what you're doing is 'rubbing it in'. Clearly you have people in your environment that like these things, but I haven't. Please, I could really do without how cool your life is.

"Chances are the issues are none of that." Well, this IS what we're talking about.

"Its likely how you present yourself to a woman before you ever talk to her, that turns her off." WHAT?

" If your attitude is 'no woman wants me' then when you approach a woman" ... haha Was that my attitude? Oh, sorry ... Actually, that isn't my attitude. But whatever. I'll move on.

There's a discrepancy. You say that I should change how I think, and that will change my body language, and, as a result, I will be attractive to women (I have to say, that's alittle vague); yet, according to how you've described yourself, you yourself should be the loneliest guy in the world. Your attitude about yourself is far worse than mine (I can actually say that!) from how you described yourself above, and yet you claim to have 'attracted' every kind of pretty girl imaginable. According to your reasoning, you shouldn't get anyone. Hence, one of you is lying

Nice try. Please, remember that the Bible says, Lie not one to another. God bless you!

 

[Art05]

sounds like you need to go to an anime convention. >_< lol. all my "nerdy" friends who say they can't get a girl. . . . .they always leave there with at least 3 numbers. and usually they just stay friends over Facebook or something but thats cause they're too shy to push and say "lets hang out"

But i promise. anime convention is like a nerds paradise. >_< (can't wait to go to the next one)
OH! and dress up!

lol Anime convention? No thank you. "Nerdy" friends? No thank you!

You know how many saved people are in those conventions? Probably anything next to zero.

Leave there with 3 numbers?! Wow! hahaha they do better than us Christian men!

They're too shy? Well, who wouldn't be. They're complete strangers, and no one in their right mind wants to bother a stranger. They could be busy with their job or some other thing, and your yourself can say that, when busy, anyone texting or calling just to say "Hey" is pretty annoying. It's not that they're shy, but their just wanting to keep a good reputation.

Nerd's paradise? I'd prefer the company of the elect, thanks.

Dress up? In those places, men dress up like women! That is sin, according to the Lord.

I guess this was supposed to be advice ...

 

[Art05]

Hey Art05,

You brought up some interesting stuff. Why did you go off about how you're not good looking? If there are seriously no Christian girls your age there, then that's your problem. What you're doing is like going fishing in a lake with no fish and then calling yourself a terrible fisherman. If the lake has no fish, then it doesn't matter how good a fisherman you are! You get what I'm trying to say?

In any case, being good looking is not really a requirement for us men. I know you may think it is because it's important to you, but it's not as important to women. I know, strange right? But that's just how God made us. Dressing well, and looking well-groomed, is much more important than looking good. And it can be done on a tight budget.

From what you described, you don't sound boring to me. I used to talk about the Bible all the time and girls loved it. It shows them you're a strong man of God, but more importantly, it shows that you're passionate about something. Keep talking about the Bible; a really special Bible-loving girl will find that REALLY attractive! As far as video games and anime go, most girls don't like that kind of stuff, but that's really a non-issue. Most girls don't like watching football, weight lifting, or working on cars either, but I'm sure you know that guys that do like those things don't get turned down by many girls because of their hobbies. Guys and girls, for the most part, enjoy doing different things. Trying to find a girl who enjoys video games is missing the point; you're looking for a life partner and co-parent, not a video game partner. Make bro-friends for that.

And don't ignore that last sentence. Make bro-friends! It's really, REALLY important for a man to have friends who are other men. There are a plethora of reasons for this, but suffice it to say, if you really don't have any friends, make friends FIRST, then look for a lady.

Hey AAAPlus,

"Why did you go off about how you're not good looking?" That's the topic lol

"If there are seriously no Christian girls your age there, then that's your problem. What you're doing is like going fishing in a lake with no fish and then calling yourself a terrible fisherman. If the lake has no fish, then it doesn't matter how good a fisherman you are! You get what I'm trying to say?" Yes! I know! But! ... that's also a problem. Where do I go?! rofl I can't just pick up and leave. That doesn't make sense-- you follow me? Remember what I said, I'm very, very poor. It's the truth lol. I barely make enough to get by. My car is ... running by grace, and I'm thankful for that! But you're absolutely right, though. I can't get a fish where there aren't any, and that's here, my friend. Pray for me.

"In any case, being good looking is not really a requirement for us men. I know you may think it is because it's important to you, but it's not as important to women." You've been deceived; it's actually very important to them. But that's okay: women have to say that they're not really interested in our physical appearance; if they don't convince us, then they never get what they want. Alot of women settle and marry, but that doesn't rid them from lust, or being attracted from what they consider to be 'hot guys'. The truth: As us men are aroused by really beautiful women (and I mean physically), even so women are themselves attracted and aroused by what they consider attractive men (physically). This, I have learned from experience; watching women glancing at men with lustful smiles, and even online, if there is a picture of men on Facebook or whatnot, their comments are focused on the men they find attractive. The comments actually become very strange and weird. In conclusion, what you're saying is wrong.

"From what you described, you don't sound boring to me." ... ??? What exactly did I describe? lol

" I used to talk about the Bible all the time and girls loved it. It shows them you're a strong man of God, but more importantly, it shows that you're passionate about something." Okay ... WHERE ARE THESE GIRLS?!?!?! LOL! Please don't tell me you're making this up! haha In no time in my saved life have I met or even encountered such girls. Older married women ... yes. Young, attractive, single girls? NOPE. Please, no more rubbing it in! Please!

" Keep talking about the Bible; a really special Bible-loving girl will find that REALLY attractive!" Yes, but that's the problem: There is no one here like that! And, again, there is no where I can go.

"As far as video games and anime go, most girls don't like that kind of stuff, but that's really a non-issue." Although I agree with you, apparently, from what others have said here, they do care lol.

... more in a bit.

 

[DragonSlayer]

Are you looking to be attractive to girls in general ? Or to one special and unique girl only ?
It's two completely different perspectives.

The first one is a worldly perspective and is not real love, but fake love, and it's very popular in this fallen world.

The second one is a heavenly perspective and is the true definition of love;
it's very unpopular in this fallen world, but it's very special and unique !

You should not look for girls, but you should look for one special girl in particular, who is specially made for you.

I noticed you really have a bad attitude right now; do you feel rejected and feel bitter towards people in general ?
Because if you are, you are blinkered by a lot of negativity, and you would not be able to see positivity in life or any positive opportunity coming at you. Truly, if you are blinkered by a lot of negativity like you are right now, even if the most beautiful girl of your dreams would come at you and would be interested to know you, you would not see it, because you are blinkered by a lot of negativity, you would think, " it couldn't happen ", " it's not possible " ( negativity prayer ), and the girl of your dreams would think you're not interested and she would be...gone ! ( negativity prayer fulfilled )

You want positive things to happen in your life ? Flee extremely far from the negativity attitude, learn to love yourself as you are, learn to get rid of your negativity blinkers and see positive things and great opportunities in your life, smile to life, and life would smile at you in return

Next time you meet a great opportunity in life, do the complete opposite of what you used to do,
do a positivity prayer " it could happen " " it's possible "
and then some time later...( positivity prayer fulfilled )

 

[Art05]

Hey Art05,

You brought up some interesting stuff. Why did you go off about how you're not good looking? If there are seriously no Christian girls your age there, then that's your problem. What you're doing is like going fishing in a lake with no fish and then calling yourself a terrible fisherman. If the lake has no fish, then it doesn't matter how good a fisherman you are! You get what I'm trying to say?

In any case, being good looking is not really a requirement for us men. I know you may think it is because it's important to you, but it's not as important to women. I know, strange right? But that's just how God made us. Dressing well, and looking well-groomed, is much more important than looking good. And it can be done on a tight budget.

From what you described, you don't sound boring to me. I used to talk about the Bible all the time and girls loved it. It shows them you're a strong man of God, but more importantly, it shows that you're passionate about something. Keep talking about the Bible; a really special Bible-loving girl will find that REALLY attractive! As far as video games and anime go, most girls don't like that kind of stuff, but that's really a non-issue. Most girls don't like watching football, weight lifting, or working on cars either, but I'm sure you know that guys that do like those things don't get turned down by many girls because of their hobbies. Guys and girls, for the most part, enjoy doing different things. Trying to find a girl who enjoys video games is missing the point; you're looking for a life partner and co-parent, not a video game partner. Make bro-friends for that.

And don't ignore that last sentence. Make bro-friends! It's really, REALLY important for a man to have friends who are other men. There are a plethora of reasons for this, but suffice it to say, if you really don't have any friends, make friends FIRST, then look for a lady.

Okay, back on it. "As far as video games and anime go, most girls don't like that kind of stuff, but that's really a non-issue." Well, apparently, according to what I've seen here, there are girls that do like that stuff lol. But, not here. And, that's the problem. But I do disagree with you saying that it's a non-issue. Actually, most (and probably all) relationships begin with shared interests.

"Most girls don't like watching football, weight lifting, or working on cars either" ... Yeah, neither do I. I guess we might have shared interests after all lol

"Trying to find a girl who enjoys video games is missing the point; you're looking for a life partner and co-parent, not a video game partner." Again, those that share interests will win out over those that have nothing in common. It's not about finding a video game partner, but the fact that, since I like video games, they don't want to even talk to me-- get it? That's what I'm dealing with.

" Make bro-friends! It's really, REALLY important for a man to have friends who are other men. " Okay, another problem. As you've read, I have no friends. Even since I got saved, I lost all of my worldly friends (and that was a blessing, because being friends with the world is against the will of God), but I never gained any Christian friends my own age. And I've prayed for friends, men or women (doesn't matter) for about 5 years, and nada. Nothing. But, I mean, what can I do? I know the importance of friendship, but apparently others don't (lol), or they don't want to be my friend. Unfortunately, I'm practically the only Christian in my church my own age (a small church?), and if I do meet up with other guys my age that profess salvation, they tend to be very liberal in their faith; this is sometimes reflected in their values, and, hence, they don't like to hang around a person like me, that wishes to glorify God in all of life. But, that's just my environment; this is my lot. Oh well. Depression time.

"There are a plethora of reasons for this, but suffice it to say, if you really don't have any friends, make friends FIRST, then look for a lady." I want to thank you for your answer. So far, it's the best I've seen. If you can, please send me these reasons privately, with a message. I'd really appreciate it! Thanks AAAPlus!